Zifukwa zomwe maunansi abanja ali ofunikira

Zimapangitsa ana kukhala otetezeka komanso okondedwa, zomwe zimathandiza kuti ubongo wawo ukule.

Zingathandize kuthana ndi vuto la kugona, kuphunzira ndi khalidwe.

Pangani kukhala kosavuta kwa banja lanu kuthetsa mavuto ndi kuthetsa mikangano.

Kumathandiza inuyo ndi ana anu kulemekeza kusiyana maganizo, zimene zimapatsa ana anu ufulu wodziimira.

Zimapatsa ana maluso omwe amafunikira kuti apange maubwenzi abwino pawokha.

Ndi pazifukwa izi kuti nthawi zonse kumakhala kothandiza kulingalira maubwenzi omwe mumagawana ndi ana anu ndi achibale anu, ndikuganizira momwe mungawathandizire.

Pali zinthu zambiri zosavuta zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi mabanja:

Nthaŵi yokhala ndi banja ili yofunika kwambiri ndi kukhala ndi nthaŵi yabwino m’banja mwanu, gwiritsirani ntchito nthaŵi ya tsiku ndi tsiku pamodzi kukambitsirana, kugawana ndi kuseka, popeza kuli kofunika kugawana nthaŵi zokondweretsa ndi banja lanu.

Kambiranani maso ndi maso ndi aliyense m’banjamo kuti mulimbitse maunansi a munthu mmodzi.

Ganizirani limodzi zochita pazochitika zapadera. Ngakhale ana aang’ono angakhale mbali ya zosankhazi.

Sonyezani chiyamikiro, chikondi ndi chilimbikitso kupyolera m’mawu aubwenzi onga kunena kuti “Ndimakukondani” kwa ana anu usiku uliwonse pamene akukagona.

Pangani malamulo a m’banja amene amafotokoza momveka bwino mmene banja lanu limafunira kusamalirira ndi kuchitira zinthu ndi anthu ake. Mwachitsanzo, “M’banja mwathu timalankhulana mwaulemu.” Malamulo oterowo amathandiza aliyense kukhalira limodzi bwino, ndipo amapangitsa moyo wabanja kukhala wodekha.

Kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuthetsa mavuto Izi zikuphatikizapo kumvetsera ndi kuganiza modekha, kulingalira zosankha, kulemekeza maganizo a ena, kupeza mayankho olimbikitsa, ndi kugwirizana.

Wokondedwa wanga : Ubale wabwino wabanja ndi mbali yofunika ya mabanja olimba. Mabanja olimba amabwera chifukwa cha chikondi, chifukwa cha kulumikizana, kulumikizana, ndi malamulo ena komanso zatsiku ndi tsiku.