Malangizo kwa kuyankhulana bwino ntchito

Maupangiri ofunikira omwe ali ofunikira musanayambe komanso panthawi yofunsa mafunso

1- Gonani bwino usiku usanafike kuyankhulana, ndipo idyani chakudya cham'mawa musanapite ku zokambirana.
2- Konzekerani kuti mufike mofulumira kumalo oyankhulana, chifukwa palibe chifukwa chozengereza chomwe chingavomerezedwe, ndipo ngati chinachake chinachitika chomwe chinakupangitsani kuti muchedwe, muyenera kuyimba mwamsanga kuti mupepese.
3- Yang'anani m'maso mwa omwe akukulowetsani kuti amupangitse kudzidalira.
4- Osanama, yankhani mafunso momveka bwino ndipo musafune zambiri zosafunikira.
5- Osayankha mafunso ndi inde ndi ayi okha, ndipo yesani kufotokoza luso lanu ndi luso lanu popereka zitsanzo zosonyeza.
6- Osakumana ndi zovuta zilizonse zanu.
7- Fotokozani zomwe mungapatse kampaniyo m'malo mofunsa zomwe ingakupatseni.
8- Ndi maonekedwe anu panthawi yofunsidwa ntchito, zomwe zimaphatikizapo maonekedwe anu, khalidwe lanu ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana a nkhope, zomwe zimatsimikizira momwe ena amakuonerani poyamba; Chifukwa chake muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi pa nthawi yofunsira ntchito.
9- Kumapeto kwa kuyankhulana kwaumwini, wopemphayo agwirane chanza ndi wofunsayo, kumwetulira, kumuyang'ana mwachindunji, ndikumuthokoza.

Pewani zolakwika izi zomwe simungazizindikire:
1- Osapita ku zokambirana ndipo padzanja kapena pamkono pali zizindikiro za tattoo inayake.
2- Yankho mwachangu ku funso osasiya nthawi yoganiza musanayankhe. Mfundo iyi ikugwera mu kusowa kwa kumvetsera bwino kwa funso.
3- Lankhulani motsitsa kuti munthu amene mukulankhula naye asakumve, kapena kuyankhula mokweza, ndipo dzikhulupirireni mwa inu nokha, koma samalani ndi kudzidalira mopambanitsa, chifukwa zikhoza kumveka ngati mwamakani.
4- Kuwoneka wosimidwa ndikuvomera ntchito iliyonse yomwe angapatsidwe.
5- Kutafuna chingamu kapena maswiti.
6- Kusuta, ndipo ngati woyang'anira kuyankhulana akukupatsani ndudu, kanani mwaulemu.
7- Kutulutsa manja kapena manja osokoneza kapena kusokoneza.
8- Kuyika mwendo pa mwendo ndikupumula mokopa.
9- Kuyang'ana kapena kuyang'ana mapepala omwe ali patebulo.
10- Kusiya foni yosakhoma, kapena kuyankha mafoni aliwonse.
11- Osapita ku interview mutavala jeans kapena T-sheti kapena nsapato zamasewera kapena nsapato.

Kodi muli ndi mafunso? Funsoli limafunsidwa nthawi zambiri kumapeto kwa kuyankhulana, konzani malingaliro anu ndi mafunso musanapite ku zokambirana:
1- Chifukwa chiyani malowa alibe munthu?
2- Chifukwa chiyani wantchito womaliza adamusiya?
3- Ndani adzakhala woyang'anira mwachindunji?
4- Ndifunika maphunziro ati?
5- Kodi ntchito yanga yoyamba idzakhala iti?
6- Ndidzalandila liti yankho lanu pamafunso ofunsira ntchito?

Mafunso omwe muyenera kuyembekezera pa zokambirana:
1- Ndi zolinga ziti zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa mu moyo wanu waukadaulo? Zolinga zomwe zapambana pakufufuza kwawo ?
2- N'chifukwa chiyani mwasankha kugwira ntchito imeneyi makamaka?
3- Mumaona bwanji kupambana? Kodi mungapereke chitsanzo cha kupambana kwanu?
4- Kodi mumakonda kuchita ndi anthu kapena ndi data?
5- Kodi mumatani mukakumana ndi zovuta zantchito?
6- Perekani chitsanzo cha vuto lalikulu limene munakumana nalo ndipo munalithetsa bwinobwino.
7- Chofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndi chiyani: mtundu wa ntchito kapena malipiro?
8- Muyembekeza malipiro apakati?
9- Perekani chitsanzo cha vuto limene munayenera kupanga chosankha mwamsanga, ndipo zotsatira zake zinali zotani?
10- Ndi zovuta ziti zomwe mudakumana nazo pantchito yanu kudzera mukuchita ndi makasitomala?
11- Kodi mungatani mukakumana ndi maudindo angapo omwe mwapatsidwa?
12- Ndi vuto lanji lomwe mudakumana nalo pantchito yanu mmbuyomu ndipo munathana nalo bwanji?
13- Kodi mamenejala ochita bwino amakhala ndi ziti?

 

 

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Katswiri wa Psychology

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed