Kodi mumakonda chikondi chamalingaliro kapena chikondi chamumtima?

Munthu amadzimva kukhala wosungika pamene akuganiza kuti ali mumtheradi ndi chikondi chenicheni chimene chimapitiriza m’kupita kwa nthaŵi ndipo sichifota, koma kuzindikira chikondi chimenechi kungakhale kovuta, pamene tikufunafuna chikondi chenicheni chimene chimatsimikizira kukhazikika kwamaganizo kwa moyo. tikamanena kuti chikondi cha m'maganizo ndichopambana kwambiri Chimakhazikika pakumvetsetsa ndi kulingalira komanso kuphunzira momwe munthu aliyense payekha amayendera komanso kugwirizana kwake ndi mnzake.Kachiwirinso, timanenanso kuti chikondi cha mtima ndicho Zokongola kwambiri, zimatifikitsa kumalo osadziwa zochita zathu, kumalo ongokhalira kukonda ena, kutali ndi kudzikonda komanso kutali ndi zofunika.

Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kukonda maganizo ndi kukonda mtima? 

Pamene mumakonda ndi malingaliro anu

Mosazindikira kudzazidwa ndi chikondi cha umwini ndi kulamulira ndipo kumawonjezeka ndi kupita kwa masiku kugwirizana ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Pamene maganizo amalamulira, chikondi chimakhala chokhazikika pamiyezo yapadera monga kuyika njira yochitira ndi kukhazikitsa malamulo kuti azitsatira molingana ndi gulu lolamulira, choncho kuti moyo ukupitiriza kukhala pamodzi kapena pansi pa dzina ngati inu simuli, ndiye inu simundikonda ine. 

Chikondi chimenechi n’chofala kwambiri m’madera mwathu ndipo ndi chifukwa cha maganizo amene alipo ambiri akuti kukhalira limodzi ndiye maziko a ukwati ndipo malingaliro ena onse adzawonongeka pambuyo pake.” Chothandizira chachikulu pa kufalikira kwa chikhutiro chotere chikhoza kukhala cholowa cha anthu.

Pamene mumakonda ndi mtima wanu

Imatambalala ngati thambo ndi yemwe umamukonda ndipo umamva mpweya ndi ufulu.Kumva uku sikuwonongeka pamene kuli kweniyeni, koma chisangalalochi chimakhala chamoyo.Mukakonda kuchokera pansi pamtima, simudzadziwa logic kapena nzeru. chikondi ichi, simumachitira ndemanga, simuchilamulira, kapena kukhala ndi kudzikonda.Mumaona ndi maso anu kukongola ndi chikondi ndi mtima wanu, mukuwona zolakwika ndikuzikonda.Momwe zilili ndipo sizilimbana ndi kusintha chirichonse ndi wina, pamene malingaliro awa ndi enieni komanso owona mtima, samafota, koma amatembenuza mawonekedwe awo onse kukhala malingaliro apamwamba omwe amakulitsa munthuyo zonse zomwe zili zabwino.