Kana vaviri vacho vapinda mukunyarara, kusakwanisa kutaura uye kunzwa kuregeredzwa……. Izvi zvinoratidza kuti hukama hwatanga kupinda muhupenyu hwegehena, uye hupenyu hwegehena hunotungamira mukurambana chinyararire kunonzi kurambana kwepfungwa, uye ine marudzi mana:

1- Kurambana kwepfungwa kana gehena rehukama hwewanano kunogona kutora chinyararire maitiro; Pasinei nekusavapo kwekunzwa uye manzwiro pakati pevakaroorana, vakadzikama sekunge chibvumirano chakaitwa pakati pavo. Inogona kutora mamiriro ezvinhu ane dutu kuitira kuti mhepo yekunyarara pakati pavo inoputika nguva nenguva chamupupuri chekuridza mhere uye kudanidzira, ndiko kukanganisa chaiko, uye kurambana kwepamutemo kwevanhu vose, icho chiri chibereko chaicho chekuputika kwakavanzika; Kusawirirana kunomuka kubva muzviitiko izvi kusvika padanho repamusoro, zvichitora nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzechigarire, kupopotedzana, uye kurwisana.

2- Kurambana kwepfungwa, sezvazviri kune vakaroorana pamwe chete, zvingave kune rumwe rutivi chete nokuda kwechikonzero, saka anouraya nemaune manzwiro ake kune mumwe munhu, kana kuti zvingangowira mukusaziva muhubernation zvishoma nezvishoma, pasinei nehupenyu. yemanzwiro erimwe bato kwaari, uye tariro yake yekudzokera kune yakatangira.

3- Kurambana kune mhando, dzimwe dzaive dzakajeka uye dzakajeka, kusanganisira zvaive zvakavanzwa uye zvakavanzwa, uye yakavanzika ndiyo mavambo echokwadi ekuputswa kwechimiro chewanano, izvo zvinozoguma nekurambana kwakajeka pakati uye kuparadzana kunorwadza ne. izvo vana vavo vakaparadzirwa, ndiko kutsemuka kwakavanzika, kuremerwa kwepfungwa, kana kurambana kwepfungwa, Ndiyo mamiriro ekudzima hukama hwerudo-bonde, kana kupera kwayo kusvika padanho repamusoro, pamwe nekuunganidzwa kwekupokana mune zvinotarisirwa uye. zvinokosha. The conjugal bond inoita kunge yadzikira maererano neshungu nekudyidzana mukuzadzisa zvinangwa.Nekuderera uku, musiyano unowedzera, uye nzvimbo yemharadzano pakati pemadenderedzwa maviri echisungo che conjugal - munhu wega wega anomiririra denderedzwa - uye izvi. madenderedzwa maviri anosiyana; Izvi zvinoguma nenyika mbiri dzakasiyana-siyana dziripo, uye divi rimwe nerimwe rinonzwa kuti kuve kwaro kwaraswa; Izvo zvinowedzera kurongeka kwake kwepfungwa kune mumwe mukuyedza kumutora nekupambadza hunhu hwake.

4- Kurambana kwepfungwa kune marudzi maviri: yekutanga ndeyokuti vakaroorana vanoziva kurambana kwavo mupfungwa, uye kuparara kwemamiriro avo emanzwiro.

Kana iri yechipiri, umo mubato mumwe usingagutsikani nechimiro chake chendangariro; Nokuti anosangana nekukakavadzana kwakasiyana-siyana nemumwe wake, uye anonzwa kuzununguka kwekubatana kwake naye, uye kurasikirwa kwake kwekuvimba, asi anoramba akavanzika pamusoro pemanzwiro ake, achivanza kushungurudzika kwake nemhando yehukama hwake husina kuenzana; Kudzivisa kuwira mukurambana kwakananga.

Kuvapo kwechimiro chekunyarara pakati pevakaroorana, umo vose vari vaviri, kana mumwe wavo, anokundikana kuiputsa, kana kupinda mairi nenzira ipi zvayo.

Kubvisa zvishoma kana kuperera pamubhedha wevakaroorana.

Kushaikwa kwezvido zvakafanana, kana zvinangwa zvakafanana izvo vakaroorana vanosangana nazvo.

Tiza pamusha kupfurikidza nokubuda kunze, kunonoka kurara, kufamba pamusoro pomurume, kana kuti kudzokorora shanyo dzomudzimai kuhama dzake dzokunyama, nezvimwe zvakadaro, uye kutiza mukati memba kupfurikidza nokubatikana namapepanhau, terevhizheni, kombiyuta, uye zvimwe zvinhu kubva mukutaurirana newaunogara naye.

Kuvapo kwemamiriro ekunyomba, kunyomba, uye kusava nehanya nezvido uye manzwiro emumwe, pane kuedza kupi nokupi kuputsa hukama hwehukama, uye hupe humwe hushamwari.

Kunzwa kuti kuenderera mberi kwehupenyu hwewanano ndeye nekuda kwevana chete, kana kutya kuenda kuburikidza nechiitiko chekurambana, uye kutakura zita remhedziso, kana kurambana pamberi pevanhu.

Hapana pfungwa yemusiyano kana vakaroorana vari kure nemumwe, kana kuti vari pedyo nemumwe, asi vakaroorana vanogona kunzwa kunyaradzwa kana vari kure nemumwe.

Kunyarara, kana kunyarara kwevakaroorana: chimwe chezviitiko zvinotungamirira kumatambudziko makuru pakati pevakaroorana, umo mumwe wevakaroorana, kana vose vari vaviri vakazvipira kunyarara nguva zhinji, uye kutaura pakati pake nemumwe munhu kunogumira misoro inodiwa chete, pasina kuterera kune akakosha ruzivo rwebato rega rega, uye inobatwa Hupenyu hwavo hwewanano hunokanganiswa zvakanyanya semhedzisiro, uye kutaurirana kushoma.

Vakaroorana vanorega kutaurirana, kuchinjana kurukurirano pamusoro pemibato yezuva nezuva, uye kukurukura zvishoma pakati pavo; Zvinotungamirira mukunyarara.

Vakaroorana vanorega kuswedera kune mumwe nemumwe; Kudyidzana kwepedyo pakati pavo kunoderera; Izvo zvakakosha zvikuru mukuchengetedza kudzoreredzwa kwehukama hwepfungwa pakati pavo.

Vakaroorana havateereri mumwe nomumwe, vanonzwa vachivhiringidzika, vakaora mwoyo, vanorasikirwa nemutauro wemuviri; Zvinokonzera nhamo muhupenyu hwavo.

Vakaroorana havaungani kuti vadye pamwe chete; Vanodzivisa kugara patafura imwe cheteyo, kana kuti mumwe wavo anodyira pamberi peTV, uye anodzivisa kuva nomumwe mubato.

- Kusawirirana kunowanzoitika, umo mazwi akashata anoitika, uye kusaremekedzana kwemapato kune mumwe nemumwe.

Vanhu vakarambana mupfungwa, kana mumwe wavo, vakaparadzana kubva kune mumwe, uye vanooma pasina chikonzero, uye kufarira kwavo kune mumwe nemumwe kunodzikira kusvika vapera zuva nezuva, kusvikira nhambwe dziri pakati pavo dzawedzera.

Vanotaura nemitsara mipfupi, nemibvunzo mipfupi, uye kana mumwe wavo akataura chimwe chinhu, mumwe wacho haana basa nezvaanotaura, sokunge kuti haazvinzwi.

1- Mudiwa anonzwa asingakoshi muhupenyu hwemumwe munhu; Nekuda kwekuda kwebasa, vana, shamwari, kana mhuri pamusoro pake, pamwe nekutaura kana kuita kwake kunoderedza kukosha kwemumwe wake, kunyanya kana paive pamberi pevana nevabereki pamwe chete nekudzokorora kwake. tarisa pakodzero dzake chete, uye kufarira kwake kwadziri Nepo achiregeredza kodzero nezvido zvemumwe bato, achizviregeredza, achizvideredza kwaari, uye achimuita kuti azive kuderera kwake uye kuderera kwake.

2- Kusavimbika kwemurume kumukadzi wake muzvinhu zvenyama kana zvetsika, kana mune chaanomupa nguva yake nechinangwa chekugutsa zvaanoda, nekumuitira, kana zvese zviri zviviri, nebasa rekutarisana nedzvinyiriro dzenyama uye kusangana nezvinodiwa imba nevana; kuregeredza chinhu chiri chose chingamutsa chishuvo pasina ngwariro yavo; Izvo zvinokonzera kuti mukaha uri pakati pavo uwedzere zvishoma nezvishoma, uye kushayikwa kwehukama hwepedyo pakati pavo, kana kushanduka kwayo kuita muitirowo zvawo, kana basa rakaiswa pairi.

3- Humbimbindoga hwemumwe wemapato: murume kana mudzimai anotarisa kodzero nezvinodiwa zvake chete, okanganwa mumwe wake, zvaanoda, nezvaanoda, uye kudzokororwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kunotungamira mukurambana kana kuparadzana mupfungwa.

4 - Kusazivikanwa kwezvinokosha: nekupa sarudzo kune vamwe pane wavakaroorana naye, uye ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero zvakakosha zvekurambana mupfungwa, sezvo murume achifarira basa rake, mhuri yake, hama neshamwari pane mukadzi wake, kana mukadzi. anoda basa rake, vana, mhuri, neshamwari pane murume; Zvinoita kuti mumwe wacho anzwe seasina basa.

5- Kushandura hukama hwewanano kuita tsika, basa, kana kudonha kwechisungo.

6- Hurombe : Hurombe ndechimwe chezvinhu zvinokonzeresawo kurambana mupfungwa, kungave hutsinye hwenyama, murume achinyima mudzimai wake mari yaanoda, kana hunhubu, vamwe vanotoita nhoko dzezvironda. yeimwe bato kune manzwiro uye kutarisa; Munyaya yehurombo kubva kune imwe yemapato, hukama hwerudo pakati pavo hunotanga kuoma, uye vanoparadzaniswa kubva kune mumwe mumashoko emanzwiro.

7- Murume kana mukadzi anopinda mune yavanodaidza kuti (dambudziko repakati pehupenyu), uye mumwe wacho haazive mamiriro edanho iri; Izvo zvinowedzera mukaha wepfungwa pakati pevakaroorana.

8- Kusagona kwemurume kutaura zviri mukati make kubudikidza nekutaura; Zvinoenderana nekuumbwa kwepfungwa uye kugarisana kwemurume, anogara achiita zviito kupfuura mazwi, kusiyana nemukadzi, uyo anowanzo kurondedzera zvakadzama.

9- Kubhowekana, kusava nematuro uye muitiro: Kubhowekana uye kusakendenga zvine zviratidzo zvingave nyore kukunda. kana zvikacherechedzwa, nyaya isati yanyanya; Kubhowekana kunotanga nekunyarara, kusuma, kusanyatsoteerera, kushanduka-shanduka, kutya, uye pakupedzisira mumwe nemumwe anosarudza nzira yakasiyana kune yemumwe; Uye pano convergence inova inoda kununurwa nekukurumidza.

Chinhu chinonyanya kuoma ndechekuti vakaroorana vagare muimba imwe chete, pasi pedenga rimwe, uye vanosungwa chete nemagwaro aya ehurumende, asi chaizvoizvo vari kure zvachose kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, hapana hukama hwemweya pakati pavo, uye izvi. igehena chairo iro munhu anorarama kwenguva refu

Ndiro chibatanidzo chekupedzisira mucheni youpenyu hweroorano kana rikasabatwa, asi kana rikabatwa zvakanaka, pane tariro yokuti upenyu hweroorano huchadzokera kunzira yahwo yenguva dzose:

1- Kubvuma kwevakaroorana kuvapo kwehutachiwana hune ngozi hwakapinda muupenyu hwewanano uye hukashanda kuidzivisa, ndiko kurambana kwepfungwa, uye vakabvumirana pamusoro pekudiwa kwekubatana kwavo, uye kuita zvose zvavanogona; kuitira kuibvisa; Kudzorera hupenyu hwavo hwewanano muhutano hwakazara, uye runako rwakazara.

2- Kushanda kudzika hunhu hwekutaura pachena uye kujeka mukubata pakati pevakaroorana; Kuitira kuti mumwe nomumwe wavo anzwisise mumwe, anzwisise manzwiro ake zvakarurama, uye aone zvaanoda, pfungwa, matambudziko, uye kutya, izvo zvinobatsira zvikuru mukunzwisisa mumwe, kudzika uye kusimbisa ukama huri pakati pavo.

3- Kubvumira mumwe munhu kuti ataure zvaanazvo, achinyatsoona kuti zvaanazvo zvinonzwika.

4- Kuvhura nzvimbo yakakura kuti mumwe wake anzwe kugadzikana mukati mehukama hwewanano

5- Mumwe nemumwe wevakaroorana anoonga zviito zvinopihwa nemumwe, anomutenda nazvo kunyangwe zviri nyore sei, anoteerera kune ayo akanaka maitiro, anozvirumbidza nazvo, uye anotenda nazvo; nechinangwa chokuisimbisa.

6- Kuwedzera kugona kwemumwe nemumwe wako kugadzirisa kunodiwa kutarisana nekugadzirisa matambudziko.

7- Bato rega rega rinonzwisisa maitiro erimwe bato.

8- Dzidza hunyanzvi hwediplomacy nekubata nemumwe bato uye kurumbidza kwakawanda, kurumbidza, kurumbidza pachitarisiko, uye mumiriri wekurumbidza.

9 - Nhaurirano ndiyo nheyo yemhinduro kune chero dambudziko pakati pevakaroorana, uye mukudzoka kunyarara kunotungamirira kukuwedzera kwezvinetso.

10- Chinoomesa hukama zvakanyanya ndiyo tsika yemazuva ese; Naizvozvo, zvinobatsira kupinza zvinhu zvitsva muupenyu hweroorano kuti vasiye iyi muitiro, zvakadai sokubuda kunotandara kwevhiki nevhiki, kana kuti kushanyira nzvimbo dzavaisimboshanyira pamwe chete pamazuva okuroorana kwavo, uye kutanga kweroorano; Kurangarira ndangariro idzodzo dzakanaka dzinonhuwirira nerudo kune mumwe.

11- Rimwe nerimwe remapato maviri rinofanira kuedza kugashira rimwe divi, rofuratira zvikanganiso zvaringave naro, uye rangarira kuti isu hatisi vanotadza, uye zvakajairika kwatiri kuita kumwe kukanganisa, uye uyo asingaregereri. mwene wake nhasi nokuda kwekukanganisa kwake, angamutarisira sei kuti amuregerere pakukanganisa kwake pashure?

12- Kusasiya nguva yekunetsana mushure mekunge dambudziko ripi zvaro raitika; Nemhaka yokuti kureba kwokupopotedzana kunotungamirira kukupfuta kworuvengo mumwoyo, uye kuungana kwokunzwa kworuvengo.

13- Kutora chikamu uye nhaurirano muzvinhu zvese zvehupenyu, ingave muhupenyu hunoshanda nematambudziko ayo kana pfungwa nekutya.

14- Dzokerai pakutendeseka kubva pakutanga, gadzirisai matambudziko ese anotanga mava mugwara, uye gadzirisai kusava nehanya nekukurumidza kusati kwashanduka kuita kuwanda kukuru; Kuremedza muchato, uye kukonzera kutsemuka kwayo, uye pakupedzisira kudonha.

15- Mudzimai anofanira kuita kuti murume wake anzwe - pasina kuwedzeredza - kukosha kwake muhupenyu hwake uye hupenyu hwevana mupfungwa, uye kwete mune zvemari chete, uye kuti haafanire kumbomuregeredza, uye asamboregeredza mabasa ake emhuri, uye kwete kunyanyovimba. paari nezvese zvese zvehupenyu, sezvaanoda mudiwa wehupenyu hwake anovimba Iye anovimbiswa kubudirira kwake nekugadzirisa zvinhu zvemhuri, uye haasi mwana anoenda kwaari munzira dzese diki uye dzechinyakare.

16- Zano kumurume: Yeuchidza mudzimai wako nezveshoko rakapfava, rozi rakanaka, chipo chidiki, parwendo rwunodzoreredza hujaya hwake, uye kudzorera hupenyu kumoyo wake, umo kusuwa kunoda kugadzikana. Kunyangwe iwe uchifunga kuti ari kunyanya kuda kuti utarise iwe. Muregererei, uye muzadze nerudo, rudo, uye kuva pedyo.

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