Matanho ekubata chikomba

Unovhima sei chikomba? Usashamiswe nemubvunzo, nekuti hauna kufemerwa nemafungiro angu.Mubvunzo uyu ndiwo musoro webhuku rakanyorwa nemunyori Amal Mahmoud, uye kuburikidza nemapeji aro akapa mazano kuvasikana kuti vangatsvaga sei muchato kana kusangana, uye panguva yekupedzisira chiitiko chezera repamusoro rekuroora rakapararira, uye nyaya yekuroora yave Connection idambudziko rinotemesa vasikana vazhinji.Vakadzi vazhinji,kunyanya avo vanovimba nekugona kwavo mupfungwa nepfungwa uye vane chivimbo mavari, havasisina mahofisi ewanano kana vagadziri vemichato yemagetsi, saka vari kuzvitsvakira varume kuti vawane chokurarama nacho; Wanano ndihwo raramo.

Usashamiswe kuti michato yakawanda sei yakaitwa kuburikidza nemapati kana zviitiko zveveruzhinji.Nzvimbo dzekuzivana dzave kuvandudzwa, uye ongororo yepfungwa yakasimbisa kuti zvakakosha kuti musikana ayanane naye padanho rega rega raanotora.Heano matanho kubata chikomba:

• Usarasikirwa netariro uye usasuruvara uye kuchema rombo rako pazera rekupedzisira rewanano yako, kutonga kwemifungo yakadaro kunokanganisa mamiriro ako epfungwa uye nzira yaunobata nayo neavo vakakupoteredza, izvo zvinogona kutsausa vamwe vako, se. vangafunga kuti uri kuora mwoyo kana kuti unovenga vanhu.

• Usaratidze chido chako chekuroora, uye usaita sekunge uri kushushikana neshungu dzekuti "Mukomba aripi, ndinomuda iye zvino", uye imwe nzira kune iyo ndeyokuti uchazarurira shamwari, hama yako, kana upi noupi wavashandi biyako sechinhu chinonyadzisa, kwete nokuda kwokurasikirwa nokusazvivimba.

• Kubatanidza muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva uye hwemagariro ndiyo nzira ipfupi yekukubvisa kubva mumamiriro ekumira inoita kuti iwe utore nyore kubatwa nekuora mwoyo uye inokusundidzira kuti utarisire kunaka kwako uye kunaka, asi izvi hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kukurumidza kuseri kwe pfungwa yokuti chikomba chakahwanda kuseri kwegonhi” womhanyira kubuda nguva zhinji uye manheru nevaunoziva kana vausingazive nekuti Izvi zvinogona kuisa zita rako panjodzi.Kufunga uye kudzikama ndiyo chete kiyi yako yekupfuura izvi. dariro rinopfuura segore rechirimo paunowana chikomba nomurume akanaka wawakanyorerwa naMwari.

• Kutora chikamu mumapati uye muzviitiko zvekutandara kwevakadzi vaunoshanda navo.Nzvimbo, kunyanya michato, ndeimwe yenzira dzinowanzo tsvagirwa nechikomba chekutsvagira mwenga wake.Gara uchitora chikamu mumapati akadai uye iva nechokwadi chekuonekwa nekunyemwerera kwakadzikama uye kunofadza.

• Kuenda kumamosque uye kupinda makirasi esainzi, sezvo michato yakawanda inoitwa nenzira iyi, apo amai vechikomba vanopinda kirasi yesainzi uye vanoona musikana anomuda uye vanomusarudzira mwanakomana wavo, kana kuti vanobvunza vateereri mumosque. nezvemwenga akakodzera mwanakomana wake.

Chekupedzisira, ndinoda kukuudza kuti muchato chirevo uye kufanotemerwa, uye kwakanyorwa naMwari pazuva chairo, saka unofanirwa kugutsikana, kushivirira uye kuteterera, sezvo idzi dziri kiyi dzinokosha dzekuwana murume akarurama ane naye. uchapedza hupenyu hwako hwose.