Zvikonzero zvishanu zvekukundikana mupfungwa

Ukama hwepfungwa hunogara huchiyerera manzwiro uye upscale uye manzwiro anoshamisa, asi isu tinowanzobvunza kuti ndezvipi zvikonzero zvekukundikana kwehukama hwerudo? Ukama hwose hwakanaka pakutanga uye hwakafukidzwa nezvose zvinorehwa nerufaro, asi nokukurumidza kusakendenga uye kusawirirana kunotanga mushure memwedzi yakawanda uye rudo runopera nekukundikana kwepfungwa uye kukundikana kunogona kudzokororwa nechiitiko chechipiri, kana zvimwe zvakawanda.

Ukama hwepfungwa hahuteveri zvakatemwa kana kudonhedza bhaisikopo rerudo pamusoro pehukama chaihwo.Vaviri vacho vanofanira kunzwisisa kuti kudanana kwega kwega kwakasiyana kwahwo pachahwo, uye mamiriro ahwo anosiyana nehumwe hukama.
Kune akati wandei mafungiro asiri iwo anoita kuti uku kukundikana, kusanganisira:

1- Hukama hunobudirira hazvireve kuti romance yawakatanga nayo icharamba yakasimba
Hukama hwepfungwa hunoenda nematanho akati wandei, kutanga nekukwezva kune mamwe, akadzama uye ane musoro matanho, uye kutenda kwemumwe wemapato kuti kutadza kwemamwe maitiro erudo hakurevi kurasikirwa kwekunzwa kwerudo, uye kuenderera kwesimba. yemamiriro erudo umo hukama hwakatanga hazvina musoro, uye hazvireve zvakare kuti haina hunhu hwerudo, asi inofanirwa Mapato ese ari maviri anofanira kunzwisisa kukura kwehukama kubva kune imwe nhanho uye kugadzirisa uye kubata nematanho ari kuuya.

2- Hukama hunobudirira hazvireve kuti mumwe wake haamutadzi kana kukakavadzana naye
Kutsinhana kwenhaurirano, nhaurirano uye kusiyana kwemaonero hazvirevi kusapindirana uye kukundikana kwehukama, uye zvakakosha kuti mapato maviri ataure maonero avo uye kudzidza kana izwi rekuti "kwete" richitaurwa pasina kunyara uye kunyara, asi. nyaya iri munzira yekukurukurirana uye manejimendi enhaurirano pakati pemapato maviri, iyo inofanirwa kuve inoratidzwa nehunyanzvi, pamwe neKuziva kuti dzimwe nguva kuregera hakuderedze kukosha kwerimwe bato, kunyanya kana akanganisa.

3- Hukama hunobudirira hazvirevi kuti mumwe anotora hunhu hwemumwe
Kutenda kuti hukama hunobudirira huri mukuenderana kwakakwana kwepfungwa dzemapato maviri, uye kushandura rimwe remapato kuti rigutse rimwe kuti rienderane nehunhu hwake ipfungwa isina musoro nekuti munhu wega wega ane hunhu uye mararamiro akasarudzika, uye kuberekwa patsva kweumwe wemapato kune hunhu hweumwe hachisi chikonzero chekudzivisa kukanganisa kwehukama, uye kuedza kuisa chiratidzo chakakosha kunokonzera kuguma kwayo Chokwadi ndechekuti kutsungirira kwayo kunogara mukusiyana kunopa kunakidzwa kwe. kuda kuziva uye kuwanikwa kwerimwe bato.

4- Hukama hunobudirira hazvireve kuti mapato ese haana zvikanganiso
Chimwe chokwadi chinofanira kuitika, chinova chekuti hakuna munhu asina hurema, asi pane zvirema zviri nyore zvinogona kugarisana pamwe nekuenderana nazvo, uye zvakakodzerwa nehunhu hwemumwe bato uye hazvigone kuparadza hukama, uye zvinoitawo. hazvireve kuti mapato maviri aya haana hurema, uye zvakafanira kufuratira mamwe maitiro uye zvikanganiso zvingaitika pakati pevaviri vanobatana, kunyanya pakutanga kwehukama, asi nemamiriro ekuti haipfuure miganhu inotenderwa yemasikirwo uye. haikonzeri kukuvadza kwemarudzi ese uye mafomu kune chero ipi zvayo, uye tarisa pane zvakanaka zvinogona kusiyanisa mudiwa kubva kune vamwe.

5- Hukama hunobudirira hahuenderane nemutemo weanokunda neanokundwa:
Zvinofanira kucherechedzwa kuti munhu mumwe nemumwe ane hunhu hwake, hunhu, hunhu hwakazvimirira uye maitiro.Kusanzwisisa kwekuti rimwe remapato maviri ndiro rinotonga uye rinodzora pasi pehurongwa hwekutarisisa kunotungamira mukudzipwa kwemumwe bato uye kusviba kwehukama. pakati pavo nekukundikana kwayo chaiko.

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Ryan Sheikh Mohammed