Maitiro ekuita nemurume akagumbuka uye anofinha

“Ndinonzwa kuora mwoyo uye kunondiuraya.” Mashoko aya anodzokororwa nevadzimai vakawanda, nokuti murume haana basa muupenyu hwemhuri sezvinodiwa nomudzimai.” Asi, murume anoratidzwa nounhu hunoora mwoyo zvikuru hunoita kuti pasave nechiso. imba ichangopinda, kudzikama kunosuruvarisa kunokunda nzvimbo uye vagari venzvimbo yacho, nokuti Murume anotakura zvinhu zvechiso chake nhamba "111", zvichiratidza kuputika kwehuma uye koshary.

Vamwe varume vanofunga kuti ichi chimwe chezvinodikanwa zvemukurumbira zvinofanira kuva pakati pemitezo yemhuri, sezvo dzimwe nguva chiri chiratidziro chakagara nhaka pakati pamadzibaba nevanakomana, kuti kana murume akarerutsa nemhuri yake uye achiunza mufaro kwavari, mukurumbira wake unorasika, uye iyi ipfungwa isiriyo asi yakapararira, kana kuti Ndiwo hunhu mumunhu, asi dambudziko nderekuti mukadzi anonzwa kuti ari ega nemurume uyu asina kana nguva inonaka naye, uye asingaone mukati. upenyu chero chinhu kunze kwemabasa nemitoro pasina chero nguva yekuzvivaraidza nevanhu vepedyo zvikuru kwaari, uye rudzi urwu rwevarume runoda kungwara mukubata.

Ndicho chikonzero nei tichiisa mamwe mazano mumaoko emudzimai kuitira kuti agadzirise chimiro chemurume wake, uye chikepe chehupenyu chinogona kuenderera mberi nehuwandu husina kunaka:

1- Kana iwe usingade kuti imba yako irambe yakasuruvara uye yakanyarara seizvi, saka zvikodzere kuti iwe uchatora chinzvimbo chemutangi munyaya iyi, uye uchacheka mamiriro ezvinhu anosetsa uye kuvhura naye nyaya dzinonakidza.

2- Ita shuwa kuti iwe nemhuri yako mune chero chiitiko chisiri chenguva dzose, uye uchatakura mutoro wakazara wekugadzirira izvozvo, sekuronga pikiniki pakupera kwevhiki munzvimbo ipi neipi inofadza, uye kutamba pamwe chete nevana. .

3- Chenjera kuti pane zvinowanzoitika pakati pako, sekudhirowa kana kushongedzwa, kana kuti mese munoona TV kana kugovera vana venyu muchiona mamwe mafirimu emakatuni, semuenzaniso, zviitiko zvevana zvinofadza mavari, uye kunyangwe murume haabatanidzi newe, iwe wakasununguka iwe pachako uye nezvevana vako.

4- Ita shuwa kuti une denderedzwa rekuzivana navo vakaita sehama, shamwari kana vamwe vavakidzani vepedyo, kuti ukwanise kubuda navo kana kuvashanyira wowana mufaro kubva ipapo, kuti varaidzo yese irege kuperera kumurume wako chete. , uyo angakuodza mwoyo dzimwe nguva uye nokudaro oramba ari mukati mekuora mwoyo.

5- Edza nepaunogona napo kuti uve neshamwari dzepamoyo, iwe nemurume wako, vanoronga kushanya kwemhuri pamwe chete navo, kunyangwe panguva dzenguva, sezvo kushanya kwakadaro kunochinja zvakanyanya kubva kumaitiro uye monotony yehupenyu uye nekukurukurirana kwakajairika.

6- Unofanira kunge uine zvaunofarira kana zvekuzvivaraidza zvaunonakidzwa nazvo paunenge uchidzidzira, sezvo zvinhu izvi zvisingaite kuti usungirwe kumirira kuti mumwe munhu akuite kuti ufare kana kuunza mufaro kwauri.

7- Chekupedzisira, kana waremerwa nezvidavado uye hunhu hwemurume wako ndihwo hwakasimba, zviverengere kuna Mwari.Hongu, ibasa remurume maererano nomukadzi kumunyaradza nekumunyaradza.