Nzira yekukunda sei kuora mwoyo uye kuvhiringidzika mushure mekurasikirwa nebasa?

Kurasikirwa nebasa hachisi chinhu chisingatarisirwi.Kurasikirwa nebasa kunofanirwa kuunza matambudziko mazhinji epfungwa uye matambudziko anogona kukutungamirira kudepression nekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe, asi iva nemoyo murefu.asi nonoka , Hazvina kuipa, maererano nepepanhau reMirror, imwe yenyanzvi dzinokosha dzepfungwa, kurasikirwa nebasa kunogona kuva kutanga kuri nani, kwehupenyu huri nani.

Uko mumwe mukadzi akarasikirwa nebasa rake akatumira kupepanhau reBritain, achiti murugwaro rwetsamba yacho: “Ndiri mukadzi ane makore 40 okukura, uye ndakaora mwoyo zvikuru, kubvira pandakarasikirwa nebasa rangu muna October. Ndakanga ndisingatombofariri Krisimasi, kunyange zvazvo mumwe wangu nemhuri vaiita nepavaigona napo kuti vandifadze. Pamari, zvinhu zvakanaka; Nekuti mumwe wangu ane basa, uye anogona kubhadhara mari yedu, uye ini ndakawana imwe mari inozondibatsira muhupenyu hwangu. Asi dambudziko nderekuti basa rangu ndairifarira, uye ndave nemakore anoda kusvika gumi ndiriko. Ndakavaka denderedzwa rangu rokushamwaridzana nevanhu vandaishanda navo, uye zvino ndinonzwa ndarasika zvachose. Zvinoita sokuti ndiri kutanga pamakore makumi mana, uye handina chivimbo chokudaro. Ndinotya kuedza, saka ndangoedza nemwoyo wose kutsvaga rimwe basa kune imwe nzvimbo. Kushungurudzika ndanga ndichishanda nguva yakazara kubva pandakanga ndiri 10, uye hapana chimwe chandinoziva. Ndinoramba ndichiyeredza misodzi pasina chikonzero, uye handigoni kuwedzera kufara. Ndakarwadziwa kuti ndakasiya basa, vamwe vakasara. Hazvina kunaka kwandiri, sezvandinowanzonzwa senge ndine tariro, asi zvakandityora, chii chakashata?"

Mufananidzo wakakwana wezvinoreva kuva baba unoita kuti vabereki vanzwe sevakundikana

Mukana uri nani wakamirira iwe !!!!!!

Colin, nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu, anopindura kuti:
“Chokutanga, ndinoda kukuudza kuti manzwiro ako ndeomuzvarirwo, chinhu chikuru kurasikirwa nechimwe chinhu chawava nacho kwemakore anoda kusvika 10, chave chiri chikamu chikuru choupenyu hwako. Uri munzvimbo yausina kujaira, iyo inogara ichityisa.
Zvisinei, kurasikirwa nebasa rako kunogonawo kuva mukana wakanaka wekuita chimwe chinhu chitsva, uye kuvandudza hupenyu hwako nenzira dzakawanda dzakasiyana. Mazuva ano, kutendeuka makumi mana kunorevawo kuti uchiri mudiki, uine makore gumi nemanomwe eruzivo rwakakura rwaunogona kupa vamwe vashandirwi.
Zvakanaka kutora nguva kunze kana iwe usingakwanise kumira, kwete kungozvivaka mupfungwa, asi kungonakidzwa nekuita zvaunoda. Unogona kusazowana mukana iwoyo zvakare kana wangodzokera kubasa, uye handidi kuti uzvidembe uchipedza nguva uchitarisa zvakapfuura.”