Mwana mumwe chete anotambura nekuzvida here?

Mwana mumwe chete anotambura nekuzvida here?

Chidzidzo chitsva chemwanakomana chete syndrome chinoratidza kuti vana vanokura vasina mukoma kana mukoma havachina udyire kupfuura avo vane vakoma nehanzvadzi, maererano neBritish "Daily Mail", ichitaura mumagazini inonzi Social Psychological and Personality Science.

Pamusoro pezvo, vatsvakurudzi veShaanxi Normal University muXi'an, China, vakakumbira mapoka matatu akasiyana evazvipiri kuti vapedze seti yemabasa ekuzvipira kubva pakuona kwemwana mumwe chete aive nevanin'ina.

Chidzidzo chacho chisati chatanga, 70 muzana vaifunga kuti vanhu vane hama nehanzvadzi vaizova vasina hanya, zvichienzaniswa ne55 muzana vaifunga saizvozvo nezvemwanakomana mumwe chete.

Zvisinei, mushure mekudzidza, vatsvakurudzi vakagumisa kuti pakanga pasina mutsauko muhutano hwekuzvibata pakati pevana vaiva nehanzvadzi nehanzvadzi uye avo vakakurira sevana chete mumhuri dzavo.

mafungiro asina kunaka

Vatsvakurudzi vakati mafungiro asina kunaka anowanzovakirwa papfungwa yokuti "kunyanya kufarira kwevabereki" kunogona kutungamirira kune unhu hwekuzvifunga.

Kunyanya, vana chete ndivo vanofungidzirwa kuti vane narcissistic, vakaora mwoyo, uye vanokurumidza kupfuura vasiri vana chete.

Asi mhedzisiro yeongororo yakasimbisa kuti "kucherechedzwa maitiro ekuzvipira kwakafanana" pakati pemapoka maviri evana, zvichiratidza kuti stereotypes haina hwaro.

Boka rekutsvagisa rakashandisa 3 maturusi epfungwa akasiyana uye rakaona kuti vatori vechikamu vanotenda kuti vana chete ndivo vasina hanya zvakanyanya pane vane vanin'ina.

Semuenzaniso, rimwe basa raida kuti vapedze izvo zvinozivikanwa seSocial Value Orientation Scale, inova chiyero chekufarira kugovera mabhenefiti kune vamwe.

Zvigumisiro zvakaratidza kuti kunyange zvazvo 70% yevanhu vaidavira kuti munhu ane vanin'ina angave ane mafungiro akanaka evanhu, 55% vaiva nekutenda kwakafanana pamusoro pemwana mumwe chete.

Muchikamu chechipiri chekudzidza, zvishandiso zvitatu zvepfungwa zvakashandiswa pamwe ne391 vamwe vatori vechikamu.

Vatsvakurudzi vakashandisa imwe nzira yekuyera kuti vaone kuti munhu mumwe chete aizozvibata sei pasi pemamiriro akafanana, pane kuti vaifunga kuti vamwe vaizoita sei. Panguva ino, pakanga pasina mutsauko pakati pemigumisiro yevana chete zvichienzaniswa nevasiri vana chete.

Nepo muchikamu chekupedzisira chechidzidzo, paine vamwe 99 vatori vechikamu, kuzvipira kwakayerwa zvakare nekuona kuti mwana ari ega uye asiri ega akaita sei mhiri kwakasiyana "nzvimbo dzemagariro," kureva kuyera maitiro avanoita kana zviito zvavo zvichikanganisa mumwe munhu ari pedyo kana kure. . Hapana mutsauko wakawanikwa pakati pemaitiro evana vega zvichienzaniswa nevakakurira nevanin'ina kumba.

kukosha kwekukurumidza

Mupepa ravo rokutsvakurudza, vaongorori vacho vakagumisa kuti “zvakabuda muongororo iyi zvine zvazvinoreva zvinokosha,” vachiti “vana chete ndivo vari kuramba vachiwanda munyika dzakawanda, zvichitevera kuderera kwembereko munyika yose.”

Kuvapo kwemafungiro asina kunaka kunogona kuita kuti stereotype iwedzere kubatwa nevamwe mumafungiro avo uye kunyange sekuzvitsanangura, "Saka, kukunda mafungiro aya kunokosha nokukurumidza."

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