Uqhubana njani nomxhaphazi?

Umntu oxhaphazayo ngoyena mntu awufuni ukudibana naye ebomini bakho kwaye kufuneka ujongane nabo ngamanye amaxesha.

Uyakwazi kakhulu ukuba namaqhinga nokwenzakalisa abanye ukuze afumane oko akufunayo. Akanamhlobo okanye umntu amthandayo ngaphandle kwakhe yedwa. Olu hlobo kufuneka lujongwe ngononophelo olukhulu, njengoko inzuzo yomntu oxhaphazayo kukuba akaze abonise iimpazamo zakhe, kodwa umntu onobubele nohloniphekileyo uhlala engenaziphene.

Kufuneka umjonge usekude umntu oxhaphazayo, kwaye apha uyawazi amandla kunye nobuthathaka, ukuba unobudlelwane naye sikucebisa ukuba uqhawule. kodwa ngqo ekuthetheni naye kwaye ungaze uxabane naye.

Umxhaphazi uceba kakuhle aze acwangcise ngenyameko indlela yokuphumeza isicwangciso sakhe esilandelayo. Ngoko funda ukumjonga kwaye uzame ukwazi iimfihlo zentliziyo yakhe.

Unamaqhinga kakhulu. Kodwa kwiintetho ezininzi, iimpazamo ziza, kwaye ukuba ulandela amazwi akhe kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziqonda izicwangciso zakhe kunye nenjongo yakhe kwaye uqonde indlela acinga ngayo kunye noko afuna ukufikelela kuyo.

Xa umzingeli olichule efuna ukubamba ixhoba lakhe, akalijongi kube kanye, kodwa ulinda ngokuzolileyo ade aqonde apho liya kuya khona aze ayibeke apho iminatha yakhe ukuze iwele kulo. Funda ubuqili bakhe njengoko ehlala enamanyathelo aphindaphindayo nawacengcelezayo. Kwaye ukuba uthe wawela kumgibe wayo, kufuneka ufunde kwaye ushumayele ukuze ungaphinde uwele emgibeni wokuxhaphaza, kuba abantu abaxhaphazayo banetyuwa kwaye bahlakaniphile.