Sidalwe njengabantu kwimeko yokusukela kunye nomnqweno ongaphakathi wokufumana kunye nokufikelela, kwaye izinto ezisemehlweni ethu aqaqambileyo liqhinga elivela kwingqondo yakho ukuze likukhuthaze, kodwa xa sifumana into esiyifunayo kwaye iya kuba. efumanekayo ezandleni zethu, sifumanisa ukuba yayiyinto eqhelekileyo kakhulu yaye yayingeyomfuneko ukusa kumkhamo wokuba sasiyigqala njengephupha.

Ngokutsho kukaGqr. Irving Biederman, isazi ngemithambo-luvo kwiYunivesithi yaseSouthern California uthi:

I-receptors ebuchotsheni ifuna ukubetha rhoqo kwentabatheko.Imvakalelo yokuswela, yentswelo, okanye yokuthanda into ethile sisikhalo esivuselelayo esivela kwingqondo yakho malunga nokugqabhuka okufutshane kweekhemikhali ezilungileyo njengeserotonin kunye ne-dopamine, iikhompawundi zekhemikhali eziveliswa xa lindela ulonwabo” (njengokufumana izinto).

Kwaye emva kokuba le bhetshi imfutshane yeekhemikhali iphela, ubuchopho bakho bukhangela izinto ezintsha ezenza ukuba ubaleke emva kwazo ukuze unikezele ngomlinganiselo ofanayo wolonwabo, uhlala ukhuthaza ukuba ugcwalise isithuba ngokufumana.

“Ingca iluhlaza ngakumbi kwelinye icala locingo.”

Ke ngoko, uhlala uziva ngathi usukela izinto, kwaye oku kuchaza imvakalelo yabantu abanayo yonke into emehlweni akho okanye kuwe xa bejonge into ethile okanye beswele into abafuna ukuyifumana, kwaye ikwachaza indlela uye uzive xa usithi “ndifuna into kodwa andazi ukuba yintoni na.” .

Unyango lokwenyani kukwazi ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza kwengqondo yakho, kwaye akufuneki ukhokelwe yiyo yonke iminqweno yakho kwaye ubenze bathabatheke ngokusekwe kuphela ekuguquguqukeni kwexesha elifutshane kwiikhemikhali zobuchopho bakho.

Kwaye emva kwethuba uya kufumanisa ukuba into ongakhange uyifezekise ngekhe yongeze ixabiso elingakumbi kubomi bakho, usuke wayibaxa kwaye ubaxa ukubandezeleka kwakho.

Kwaye emva kwethuba, uya kufumanisa ukuba oko ukuphosileyo kunye noko ukufumeneyo bekungasayi kongeza ixabiso ngakumbi ebomini bakho.

Isihloko sisebenza kubudlelwane babantu ngokunjalo, kakhulu, nakubudlelwane bobunini kunye nokuncamathela ngokukodwa.

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