Iimpawu ezine ezikuxelela ukuba usemathandweni

Iimpawu ezine ezikuxelela ukuba usemathandweni

Ukubetha kwentliziyo, ukuxinezeleka ngequbuliso, ukubhideka okwexeshana, unokuziva ezi nezinye iimpawu emva kokufowuna, umyalezo wakusasa, okanye kwanentlanganiso nomntu omthandayo, enoba kungenxa yolonwabo olugqithiseleyo, ukuziva uneentloni, okanye imeko ethile. yokubhideka, ezi mpawu ziqhelekile phakathi Uninzi abathandi.

dibana ngabom 

Umlutha wokukhangela, njengomqondiso wokuthandana, kunye nomnqweno wokuthetha nomntu othandekayo, cinga indawo eqhelekileyo kumaqela amabini, njengoko akunakwenzeka ukujonga ukungabikho okanye ukuthetha naye. Ukuba intanda ayikho, ngoko uphawu lwesithathu lothando luthi: ukungxama ukuya kwindawo apho akhoyo, ngoko "ngabom" usondela kwaye uhleli kufuphi naye, u-Ibn Hazm uthi, kwaye emva kokusondela ngamabomu kwiqabane elithandekayo, unciphisa ngamabomu. ukusuka kuye, ngenxa yokuba unamathele kuye kwaye wakhawuleza Ukumhlangabeza, ngenxa yothando, ngoko "uyijongela phantsi yonke intetho enkulu ebiza ukuhlukana kwakhe" kwaye ufuna ukuhlala kufuphi naye, nangayiphi na indlela.

isiphithiphithi ukukhumbula

Ukuphazamiseka komntu xa eva igama lothandiweyo yenye yeempawu zothando, kodwa inquma ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwenzeke nokuba umthandi ubona into efana nentanda yakhe, kungekhona intanda yakhe. Oko kukuthi, ukwenzeka kokuphazamiseka ngenxa nje yokubona okufanayo, ngoko kwenzeka njani ukuba iliso liwela kwi-original?

ulwaneliseko olungaqhelekanga 

Umntu usoloko ekhangela abantu abasondeleyo entliziyweni yakhe ngamaxesha onxunguphalo okanye ovuyo, ngamaxesha okubandezeleka namaxhala okanye ulonwabo nempumelelo.

Uzazi ukuba uyamthanda lomntu xa umfuna umxelela into eyeyakho, kwaye awukwazi ukumxelela omnye umntu, kuba nguye yedwa oza kuba sisiphephelo sakho.

Kwaye uya kuthembela kuye ngamaxesha okubandezeleka, ngoko uya kuziva ukuba uyakwazi ukukubamba, akuncede, kwaye akujongele phantsi kwiinkxwaleko zakho, kwaye awuyi kuthandabuza kube kanye ukubhenela kuye.

umona ngaye 

Ukuziva unomona ngaye yenye yeempawu zokuthandana athi lo mntu akuxelele ngomnye umntu ozama ukusondela kuye okanye kukho iimvakalelo zovelwano phakathi kwabo okanye ibhondi okanye ubuhlobo obuqinileyo, ngoko ke ubuza malunga nohlobo olu budlelwane kunye nohlobo lonxulumano kunye nobungakanani bolu uvelwano apho, kwaye ungaphumli uqinisekile ngaphandle kokuba ukuba lo mntu ukuxelela ukuba ngabahlobo nje kwaye abanalo ezinye iimvakalelo zalo naluphi na uhlobo, uya kufumanisa ukuba umlilo wakho Isifuba siphole kwaye intliziyo yakho iyekile ukubetha kangangokuba ngewuvele wophule iimbambo.

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