Iimpazamo ezilishumi kwiindlela zemfundo, musa ukubenza

Intsapho yeyona ndawo iphambili yokukhulisa umntwana kunye, yaye zininzi iindlela eziphosakeleyo abazali abazilandela bengaqondanga ekukhuliseni abantwana babo.Ezi zinto abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuba zilula, zibuchaphazela kakhulu ubuntu babo, yaye namhlanje zivela kuAnaslwa, ezona zilishumi zibalulekileyo. iindlela ezingalunganga apho wonke umama notata bawela kuzo kwimfundo:
I-1-Ukhuseleko olugqithisileyo okanye uloyiko olugqithisileyo kubo kunye nokubathintela ekusebenzeni umdlalo othile wokuzilibazisa kunye nokudlala phantsi kwesizathu sokoyika kubo.

2- Omnye wabazali, egameni lomntwana, wenza uxanduva ekufuneka umntwana elwenzile yedwa
3- Ukungaqinisi ukuzithemba kwakhe
I-4- Ukulala ngokuqhubekayo phambi komntwana ngabazali kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamagama akhubekisayo
5-Ukusebenzisa ubundlobongela, ukukhala, ukubetha ngokuqhubekayo kunye nokuqalekisa umntwana
6- Ukuvinjwa okuphindaphindiweyo ngenjongo yemfundo
7- Ukuthuka nokuthuka umntwana xa enze into enganelisiyo
8- Ukuthelekisa umntwana nomnye umntwana
9- Ukufuna umntwana ukuba enze imisebenzi kunye nemisebenzi engaphaya kwamandla akhe

10- Ukungahoywa okuqhubekayo kwabazali okanye omnye wabo kumntwana ngenxa yokuxakeka kwabo rhoqo.