Iimfihlo zePsychology yoBuqu
I-1- Ukusuka kwi-psychology yobuntu, kubantu abalindele izinto kwaye bamangaliswe yinto eyenzekayo, baneempawu zomntu ezizodwa, ezizezi: umgangatho ophezulu wokucaca kwengqondo - ubukhali bentliziyo kunye nokunyaniseka kwemvakalelo - acumen - amandla amangalisayo ekudibaniseni iziganeko. …..ngubani onaso esi siphiwo?
I-2- Ukuba awusithandi isitayile somntu okanye umgxeka, kwaye uhlala uthule kwaye ujonge emehlweni akhe ngelixa ethetha, uya kuziva uloyiko, ukuphazamiseka, kunye nobunzima bokuqhubeka nokuthetha.
3- Abantu abanamehlo amdaka bahlukaniswa ngobubele kunye nokunyaniseka ekusebenzelaneni kwabo nabanye, kwaye iintloni zixhaphakile kubo, ngakumbi xa udibana nomntu okokuqala.
I-4- Ukuba ufuna ukulondoloza umntu, musa ukuwela imigca ebomvu kunye naye kwaye ungaphazamisi ubumfihlo bakhe okanye uzame ukulawula ubomi bakhe kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungakanani amandla kunye nothando akunika lona.
5- Kungcono ukufihla amazwi akho kunye neemvakalelo zakho ngaphakathi kwakho kunokuba uzityhile kumntu ongamhoyiyo kwaye umjongele phantsi.
I-6- Ukuba uqaphela ukuba wenza umzamo omkhulu wokubona ukumomotheka komntu kwaye isandi sokuhleka komntu sikwenza wonwabe, ngoko ufikelele kwizinga eliphezulu lokuncoma kunye nothando kulo mntu.
I-7- Enye ye-degrees of pride kukugatya uluvo lomntu omthiyileyo, nokuba uluvo lwakhe lufanelekile kakhulu, ngenxa yokwesaba ukuxelela abanye ukuba le nto yayiyingcamango yam kwaye i-credit ngenxa yam.
I-8- Isimo sengqondo esingaqhelekanga esibizwa ngokuba kukuvuswa kobuxoki kunye nomntu ogulayo ugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wemihla ngemihla kunye nemisebenzi kwaye uyamangaliswa emva kokuba ephupheni elinzulu kwaye akazange afeze nantoni na ngokwenene.
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