Ukuba unazo ezi mpawu, umdala nokuba umncinci kwaye ngokuphambene

Ubutsha abupheleliselwanga kubudala obuthile, kodwa unokuba mncinci kwiminyaka yakho yamashumi asibhozo kwaye ube mdala xa uneminyaka engamashumi amabini, ukwaluphala kukuziphatha okubonakalisa ukuzinikela nemihla kwiimeko neziganeko kunye nokulahleka kwenjongo yobomi bomntu.

Iimpawu zokuguga:

 Ukudakumba okucetywayo kunye nokuphononongwa kwezinto ezingenaxabiso

 Yonke into yokugxekwa, ingcebiso okanye ingcaciso ijikela kuye ngobunzulu "Wena kutheni ngokuchasene nam" okanye undithiyile ntoni !! Ukholelwa ukuba amazulu ajikeleza yena kunye naye.

 Ingcebiso eqhubekayo .. umntu onika iingcebiso ezininzi, ukugxeka kunye nokulungiswa unemvakalelo yangaphakathi yokungabi nalutho emenza buhlungu ... ujongene naye ngokulungiswa okuninzi.

 Ukukhalaza nokungoneliseki kufihlwa ngumntu ngenxa yokuthanda ilizwe, abantu okanye abanye abantu.Ukukhalaza kukwayimvakalelo yangaphakathi yokungcatshwa.

 Ukunqongophala kwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ... oko kukuthi, ukuqina kwiingcamango kunye nokunyakaza

 Ukufinga iintshiya, unxunguphalo, unxunguphalo kwixesha elidlulileyo, kunye nokuphulukana nomzuzu wangoku. Uloyiko lwekamva elingaziwayo kunye nexesha elidlulileyo elilahlekileyo.

 Ukunqongophala komdla, ukuthabatheka, ukulangazelela, ukucwangcisa kunye namabhongo

 Ukucula ngozuko lwangaphambili kunye nokunyundela kwizizukulwana ezizayo nakwiminyaka ezayo. Ulutsha yonke imihla luhle kunayizolo

 Ukucotha ekwenzeni izigqibo, ukuhlehliswa, ukulibazisa, ukuqokelela, iimpahla ezininzi kunye neenkumbulo zokwenza ukunqongophala.

 Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqinisekiswa kunye nokuxhomekeka kwabanye kunye nokufumana ingqalelo yabo, nokuba sisifo, ukubandezeleka kunye neengxaki kunye nokubenza

 Ubungendawo, ukubambelela kwilifa, elikhoyo nelifunyenweyo.