Fumana uthando lwakhe ngawe ngamehlo akhe

Ngaphandle kolwazi oluncinci malunga nesayensi yothando ekuqaleni kokubona kunye nendlela yokuthandana, kwaye sihlala siwela kwindawo yokubuza "Ngaba uyandithanda okanye le yinkohliso", kuyaziwa ukuba amadoda ayakwazi ukufihla uthando kunabafazi, kodwa sineendlela zokuphendula Isinika imikhondo ephambili malunga nokukwazi kweenkqubo zokuhoya ngokuzenzekelayo ekwahluleni phakathi kweemvakalelo nokuzibhaqa, oko kukuthi "ukubona kwamehlo":

ndijonge kuwe ixesha elide

Umntu osentliziyweni yakhe kukho uthando okanye ukuncoma omnye umntu uya kujonga emehlweni akhe ixesha elide kwaye ehlala ejonge, kodwa umntu oqhelekileyo okanye ongenamdla uya kujonga kude nawe rhoqo ngemizuzwana embalwa. dlulela ngaphaya kobuhlobo okanye ubuzalwana.

• umfundi:

  

Iintsana zamehlo omfazi okanye owesilisa ziyakhula xa zijonge nantoni na enomtsalane, singasathethi ke ngomntu okuthandayo.

• Iglosi yamehlo:

  
  

  

Kubangelwa ukwanda komswakama wamehlo ekuphenduleni umzimba womntu ngokuncoma kunye nothando, ngoko amehlo abonakala ngathi akhanya.

Zoba ingqalelo yakho kwaye ujonge indlela osabela ngayo.

Umntu okuthandayo uzama ukutsalela ingqalelo yakho kwezona zinto zincinci, umzekelo, ukuba wenza iziqhulo kwaye uhleli neqela labantu, uya kuqaphela ukuba ujonge kuwe ngqo ukuze ajonge indlela osabela ngayo kwinto ayenzayo. wenza, yaye uya kuziva enomdla ngokukhethekileyo kuwe.

 

 

Ihlelwe ngu

Psychology Consultant

URyan Sheikh Mohammed