Fumana eyona ndlela ibalulekileyo yokuthobela ingqondo 

Fumana eyona ndlela ibalulekileyo yokuthobela ingqondo

Ukuthula okohlwaya okanye Traitement silencieux yenye yezona ndlela zibalulekileyo zokuthobela ngokwasemoyeni athi i-narcissist ibhenele kuyo ukuze alawule ixhoba ngenxa yemvakalelo yakhe yokunyuka kwamaxabiso kunye nokuvezwa kocalucalulo, ngoko ke ubhenela ekuthuleni ngesiquphe ngabom, ngaphandle kokubonelela nokuncinci. Ukuthetheleleka ngokuthula kwakhe, okusenokuthabatha iintsuku okanye iiveki.Imeko yindlela yokucinezela nokuzithoba yaye asiyombonakaliso nje yeemvakalelo zobuqu okanye umsindo onokuthi nabani na adlule kuwo. yenza umonakalo ngokwasengqondweni kwixhoba ukuze lifumane "i-narcissistic catering" kuphela.

Into efunekayo kwixhoba elikule meko kukungcungcutheka kwaye ucele ukuxolelwa kunye nokucela uxolo ngokuqhubekayo kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu ukuze unelise ubuntu obunzulu be-narcissistic ngaphandle kwesizathu sokwenyani esifuna oko.

Ngoko ke, ukuthula kule meko kungumyalezo oya kwixhoba ukuba umxelele ngokungabi naxabiso kunye nokungabalulekanga kubomi be-narcissist, ozama ngabom ukumthoba kunye nokuzithoba ngale ndlela ekhohlakeleyo, kunye nomnqweno wakhe wokumazisa rhoqo. ubutyala, ukungakhathali nokungabi nankathalo..

Nangona into eyenziwa yi-narcissist kwixhoba layo iyingozi ecacileyo, akukho mpembelelo ebonakalayo kuye. okanye imfuno yakhe ingqalelo kunye nothando ngokukodwa, ngokuseka imvakalelo yokujongelwa phantsi, nto leyo eya kuvelisa imeko yokuba yedwa, usizi kunye nodandatheko ngenxa yale estrangement okungenasizathu, nto leyo enqwenelekayo narcissist injongo yokwandisa ukubaluleka kobukho bakhe. kubomi bexhoba lakhe, owanelisa i-ego yakhe evuthelweyo ngendlela eyanelisa ubu-narcissism bakhe..

I-narcissist idla ngokubhenela kule ndlela kwinqanaba lesibini le-hierarchy yobudlelwane, elinqanaba lokuphulukana nolawulo kwiinzame zokuphinda zibeke ulawulo lwakhe nangayiphi na indlela.

Ukutshintshela kule ndlela, ethathwa njengenye yezona ntlobo zingcolileyo zokuxhaphaza kwengqondo, sesinye sezibonakaliso ezinobungozi bokuba ubuntu abuzinzile kwaye bunokuba luphawu lwesifo sengqondo esilawula ukuziphatha kunye nobudlelwane bomntu we-narcissistic.

Indlela yokujongana nale ndlela yokuziphatha 

Impendulo, ewe, ilele ekomelezeni ukhuselo oluchasene nolu hlobo lokunganyaniseki ngokweemvakalelo ngokwamkela ukusabela okuzolileyo kunye nokuphazamiseka okungumxube phakathi kokuzixakekisa kwexhoba kunye naye kangangoko kunokwenzeka kunye nokumnika ukubaluleka okungaphezulu kunye nengqalelo kunye nothando olongezelelweyo, nto leyo engayiphikisa imbono yokungaphantsi kunye nomgama wokucinga okungalunganga kwaye ke ngoko ingatsalelwa kulusizi, ukuzimela yedwa kunye noxinzelelo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba i-narcissist iya kujonga ngokusondeleyo impembelelo yento azama ukutsalela kuyo ixhoba lakhe, inyathelo elibalulekileyo apha kukuba. ukuzama ukwenza ngokungakhathaliyo ekuthuleni kwe-narcissist kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ungabonisi nakuphi na ukungonwabi kunye nemeko ekhoyo. Le meko iya kuvelisa imeko yokuphelelwa lithemba kwi-narcissist, eya kumtyhala kamva ukuba aphule le nzolo, kodwa kungekhona ngokucela uxolo okanye ukuhlehla okucacileyo, kodwa ngokuzama ukuphelelwa lithemba kuye ukucaphukisa ingxaki ecingelwayo eya kuphelisa ngexhoba. ukuthethelela kunye nokugqithisa imeko ngokuguquguquka kunye nokuba nengqiqo.

Uqikelelo lukaMaguy Farah lwehoroscope yonyaka ka-2023