Indlela yokuziphatha ebonisa ukuba lo mntu uyakuthanda ngasese

Abanye baneentloni kwaye abanye abathandi ukubonakala bebuthathaka phambi kwabanye, kwaye kukho abo bangenangqondo yokuqalisa kwaye baneqondo eliphezulu lothando ngawe.

1 iingcinga:

 Iimfihlo ezinkulu, amehlo aphilisa, ngoko ke ukuba ujonga umntu amthandayo ixesha elide, luphawu lokuncoma, kwaye ezi zibukeka zihlala zihlala ixesha elide, kwaye zimema elinye iqela ukuba liyiqaphele. , emva koko utshintshe ulwalathiso lwembonakalo yakhe kwaye aguqule ubuso bakhe, ukubuyisela ibhola Kamva, ukuba unethuba lokwenza njalo, kwaye ngakumbi le nkqubo iphinda iphindwe, kubonisa ukuba lo mntu unemvakalelo ngokwenene kuwe.

 2 Akakuhoyi kwaye ubonakala esoyika

Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abantu ababini bakwintlanganiso phakathi kwabahlobo, ngoko kunokubonakala ngathi-kancinci esidlangalaleni ukuba enye yangoku iyayihoya enye, kwaye esidlangalaleni kwabanye, kwaye isizathu sokuziphatha sinokuba nje ukuba akayazi into kufuneka enze okanye athi, ezinye iimpawu ziya kubonakala kuye kukubhideka okuNgaqhelekanga kunye noxinzelelo, ngakumbi xa incoko iphakathi kwamaqela amabini ngokuthe ngqo.

3 Nikela ingqalelo kwindlela osabela ngayo.

Ukuba amaqela amabini akhona kwitheko okanye kunye nomhlobo, iqela elithanda ngokufihlakeleyo ingqalelo kwaye linqwenela ukwazi ukusabela komntu othandekayo liya kubonakala kuyo yonke ingcamango ayibonisayo, kunye nelizwi ngalinye alithethayo, kwaye unokuzama ezininzi. ixesha lokubamangaza ngokuqhula, umzamo wokwenza lowo amthandayo ahleke, kwaye ke ukuncoma kuvela phakathi kwabo, ukusuka kwingqwalasela echanekileyo kulo mbandela ukuba ingqalelo, ukuphonononga kunye nokugxila kuya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwicala lomthandi, kwaye nangona ezi zenzo ziya kuvuleleka kubo bonke, kodwa umthandi unokungabahoyi ukuba ufuna ukwenza ibali elinye isahluko, okanye aphelise.

4 Ukulangazelela ukwazi izinto ozonwabisa ngazo, kunye nento oyithandayo:

Enye yezinto ezithathwa njengophawu lothando kukuba umntu othandana naye uzikhathalele izinto azithandayo, into athanda ukuyenza ekupheleni kweveki, ngekamva lakhe, ufunda njani, yintoni ayithandayo kuqala. , into ayibukela kumabonwakude nakwi-Intanethi, yintoni umculo awuthandayo, kwaye ithathwa njengelinge lokutyhila izinto eziqheleke ngokwenene phakathi kwabo, okanye uya kuyenza idibeneyo kamva njengelinge lokusondela kuye, kunye nokwandisa inani leentlanganiso phakathi kwabo kunye neengxoxo malunga nokuzonwabisa, kwaye le ndlela ingathathwa njengehlakaniphile.

5 ulwimi lomzimba

Yenye yeelwimi abanye abazaziyo, ukanti omnye akafundanga kuzo.Iingcali neengcaphephe zithi ulwimi lomzimba lubaluleke kakhulu ekuqondeni unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu kunye nezithandani.Intshukumo yokutyekela kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye. kuthetha ukuziva kwakhe ekhuselekile nokuthantamisa kwelinye icala, uncumo olukhupha amazinyo amhlophe Olunye uphawu lothando nentuthuzelo aluvayo, kubalulekile ukulufunda nokulusebenzisa kakuhle olu lwimi.

6 Uya kuyifumana naphi na apho uya khona:

 Uzama ukufumana ulwazi malunga nokuba uphi elinye iqela, kwaye usebenza ngazo zonke iindlela ezikhoyo, ezinokungeniswa ngamanye amaxesha ukuba zibe kuloo ndawo, kwaye ngelo xesha, kubalulekile okanye uhlala ejikeleze umthandi, naphambi kwamehlo akhe.