Izimilo ezibonisa ukuba le ndoda iyakuqhatha

Uyathandabuza kodwa awuqinisekanga, unemibuzo, kodwa awukwazi ukuqiniseka ngalo mbandela, utshintshile kakhulu, kodwa into eqinisekisayo ukuba uyakuqhatha, kunokwenzeka na ukuba iimeko zendoda itshintshe impatho yayo nebhinqa elimthandayo, impendulo ivela kwizazi ngengqondo ibe Liyinyaniso elokuba, ukutshintsha imeko yangaphandle neyobomi bendoda, njengengcinezelo yomsebenzi okanye iingxaki zentsapho, kunokuyiguqula indlela indoda emphatha ngayo umfazi wayo okanye umfazi osondelelene ngokweemvakalelo. kuye.Asiyiyo yonke inguquko yokungcatsha, kwaye akusiyo yonke into yokungahoywa.. Ukuze ungachithi kakhulu phakathi kokuphika kunye nokuqinisekiswa, sikuqokelele iimpawu ezibonisa ukungcatshwa kwale ndoda, ezinokuthi zingabi bubungqina obubambekayo kodwa. akuncede wenze isigqibo sakho uqinisekile, kuba akukho msi ngaphandle komlilo.

 Ukuncoma okuncinci ... izikhalazo ezininzi

Unokuqala ukuva ukuncoma kunye nokuthanda kancinci kunangaphambili, ulahlekile izinto ezinje "Ubukeka umhle namhlanje" okanye ndikukhumbula kakhulu! Ngelo xesha, uya kuphawula ukwanda kwesikhalazo somntu malunga nazo zonke izenzo zakho, kwaye uqala ukugxeka yonke into oyenzayo ngendlela engaqhelekanga kunye nekhuthazayo. Siyaqonda kakuhle ukuba lo mbandela unokwenzeka ngokuthe ngcembe xa uhamba naluphi na ulwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ixesha elide, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukugweba ukuba oku kuqhelekileyo, okanye ukuba bubungqina bento enye. Xa indoda iyeka ukukukhathalela, kwaye ibona izinto ezingalunganga kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho into engalunganga phakathi kwenu nobabini.

Ukutsiba ngaphandle kwendawo xa kukhala ifowuni yakhe yobuqu!

Lo mkhwa uyabulala! Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bothando, amadoda athambekele ekubeni abelane ngazo zonke iinkalo zobomi babo nabasetyhini, bayayithanda. Oku bakwenza nabahlobo babo okanye abantu abathetha kakhulu nabo. Xa indoda iyeka ukwenza oku, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo!

Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umyeni wakho uyakopela, qalisa ukubeka esweni ukuziphatha kwakhe ngefowuni yakhe yobuqu. Ngaba uzimisele ukugcina ifowuni kude nawe? Ngaba uyatsiba esitulweni sakhe ngalo lonke ixesha kukhala umnxeba? Ngaba uyazicima rhoqo zonke iincoko, ngakumbi ezo zikunye nomfazi owaziyo ukuba uthetha naye kakhulu? Ewe, awuyi kukwazi ukuphendula umbuzo wokugqibela ngaphandle kokuba uqhele ukwabelana nawe ngazo zonke iimfihlo zakhe kunye neendaba zamva nje kunye nabahlobo bakhe abangamantombazana.

 Akakwazi kuzibamba ekuthetheni ngayo.

Iyacaphukisa kakhulu..siyazi! Umyeni wakho unomntu asebenza naye okanye intombazana esondeleyo kuye emsebenzini kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezingaziwayo umfumana ekhankanya igama lakhe ngaphezu kwamaxesha amathathu ngosuku. Xa ehlala phantsi nawe ukuze akuxelele amabali akhe kunye ne-adventure yakhe yemihla ngemihla, uya kukhukuliseka ngokuzenzekelayo uthethe ngayo kwaye kwakhona. Ngaba uyasazi isizathu sokuba kwenzeke oku? Xa abantu bethanda abantu abathile, bayakuvuyela ukuthetha ngabo ngalo lonke ixesha bengakhange baqonde, kwaye kule meko lithuba lakho lokufunda phakathi kwemigca yencoko ukuze ukwazi ukuqikelela indawo yale ntombazana ebomini bakhe.

ingqalelo encinci

Uya kuqaphela ukuba umyeni wakho akasakhathali kakhulu ngemicimbi yakho yobuqu kunye nazo zonke iinkcukacha zobomi bakho xa kuthelekiswa noko wakwenzayo ngaphambili ekuqaleni kobomi bakho kunye. Mhlawumbi akayi kwenza mgudu wokwenza ixesha lakhe elininzi lokuhlala nawe aze athethe nawe njengoko ebeqhele ukwenza.

 Khetha enye intombazana kuwe

Xa wena kunye nomyeni wakho ube nobudlelwane obuqinileyo bothando, oku kukwenza ngokuzenzekelayo ube kwindawo yokuqala ebomini bakhe, ngoko ke unokubaluleka kuyo yonke into ebomini bakhe phambi kwabo bonke abahlobo bakhe, ngoko xa le meko itshintsha emva kwexesha, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba ube kwindawo yesibini emva kwenye intombazana, kwaye uyayithethelela indawo yakhe kule nto yokuba ngumlingani wakhe osondeleyo emsebenzini okanye ezinye izinto, ngoko ke kufuneka ukhathazeke ngalo mbandela, njengoko lo mcimbi unokuba luphawu lokungathembeki emtshatweni.

Ubutyala kunye nokutshintsha kweemvakalelo

Ngaba ukhe weva ingoma edumileyo kaKaty Perry ethi "Hot and Cold"? Ewe, mhlawumbi nobabini nifana namazwi ale ngoma. Ngemizuzu umfumana emhle kakhulu kwaye enobuhlobo nawe (mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba uziva enetyala), emva kwemizuzu embalwa uvakalelwa kukuba unyango lwakhe kuwe lomile kwaye alunayo imigangatho yokungcamla kunye nokuthozama! Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko! Kuphela apha uya kuziva ukuba uzijongela phantsi kwelinye ubudlelwane kwaye umile edidekile phakathi kwakho.

Iihambo ezininzi zezoshishino

Ngaba umyeni wakho uhamba kakhulu ngeshishini kwaye akacebisi nokuba uhambe naye? Ukuba impendulo nguewe, kufuneka ubuze ukuba kutheni engakuhambisi nawe. Ngaba kukho into ekrokrisayo okanye lolunye uhlobo lwamadoda athanda ukuba kude nabafazi bawo ngamaxesha athile ukuze ubomi phakathi kwabo buzaliswe yimincili nothando. Nguwe kuphela onokuphendula lo mbuzo.

 Ingqwalasela egqithisileyo kwinkangeleko yakhe

Ukuba umyeni wakho ungomnye wamadoda angayikhathaleli kakhulu ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kunye nokunyamekela ubuhle babo ngamaxesha onke, ngoko ngokukhawuleza uba nomdla kwimibandela enjalo, nikela ingqalelo, njengoko oku kunokuba luphawu lokungathembeki komtshato. .

 ukungabikho kokunamathela kuwe

Okokugqibela, ukuba umyeni wakho luhlobo olubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha, nokuba ngamazwi okanye ukwanga kunye nolwimi lomzimba, kwaye ngequbuliso akasakwenzi oko okanye umfumanise ezimisele ukuhlala kude nawe kwaye angachithi ixesha elide. nawe njengoko wayeqhele ukwenza ngaphambili, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ucinge ngale nto . Ngaba le nto uyenza kuba ekuqumbele ngempazamo oyenzileyo, okanye luphawu lokungathembeki komyeni wakho?