Amanyathelo okubambisa umyeni

Umzingela njani umyeni? Ungothuki ngulo mbuzo, kuba awuphefumlelwanga yingqondo yam.Lo mbuzo sisihloko sencwadi ebhalwe ngumbhali uAmal Mahmoud, kwaye kumaphepha ayo unike iingcebiso kumantombazana malunga nokufuna umtshato okanye ubudlelwane, kwaye ngexesha lokugqibela isenzeko yobudala eliphezulu yomtshato iye yasasazeka, kwaye umba womtshato uye waba Connection yingxaki ekhathaza amantombazana amaninzi.Abafazi abaninzi, ngakumbi abo bazithembayo ngezakhono zabo zengqondo kunye nengqondo kwaye bazithembile, abasenazo iiofisi zemitshato okanye abantu abatshatayo nge-elektroniki, ngoko bazifunela abayeni ukuze baziphilise; Umtshato yinto yokuziphilisa.

Ungamangali ukuba mingaphi imitshato eyenzeka ngamatheko okanye imicimbi yoluntu.Iindawo zokuqhelana ngoku ziphuhlisiwe ngakumbi, kwaye uphando lwezengqondo lwaqinisekisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba intombazana ixolelane nayo ngalo lonke inyathelo elithathayo.Nanka amanyathelo ukubamba umyeni:

• Ungalahli ithemba kwaye ungabi lusizi kwaye ukhale ngethamsanqa lakho xa sele ukwiminyaka yobudala bomtshato wakho, ukulawulwa kwezo ngcinga zichaphazela kakubi imeko yakho yengqondo kunye nendlela ojongana ngayo nabo bakungqongileyo, nto leyo enokuthi ikhuphe abanye benu, njengoko basenokucinga ukuba udakumbile okanye awufuni kuhlalisana nabanye abantu.

• Ungabonisi ulangazelelo lwakho lokutshata, kwaye ungenzi ngathi uxakene nento ethi “Uphi umkhwenyana, ndiyamfuna ngoku”, kwaye enye indlela yokuya kukuvulela umhlobo wakho isifuba, isalamane, okanye nabani na osebenza nabo njengehlazo, kungekhona ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ukuzithemba.

• Ukudibanisa kubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nentlalontle yeyona ndlela imfutshane yokukukhupha kwimeko yokuma ekwenza ube lixhoba elilula lokudakumba kwaye ikutyhale ukuba unakekele ubuhle bakho kunye nobuhle, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ungxamile emva kombono. ukuze umyeni azimele emva kocango” kwaye uleqe ukuphuma uye kuchitha ixesha elininzi ngorhatya kunye nabo ubaziyo okanye ongabaziyo kuba oku kunokubeka igama lakho esichengeni. inqanaba elidlula njengelifu lasehlotyeni xa ufumana umyeni kunye nomyeni olungileyo uThixo akubhalele wona.

• Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumatheko nakwimicimbi yentlalontle yabalingane abangamabhinqa.Amatheko, ngakumbi imitshato, yenye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo apho umyeni ajonge umtshakazi wakhe.Hlala uthatha inxaxheba kumatheko anjalo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba uvela ngoncumo oluzolileyo nolunomtsalane.

• Ukuya kwii-mosque kunye nokuya kwiiklasi zesayensi, njengoko imitshato emininzi iqhubeka ngolu hlobo, xa umama womyeni ehamba kwiklasi yesayensi aze abone intombazana emthandayo kwaye imkhethele unyana wakhe, okanye abuze abaphulaphuli kwi-mosque. malunga nomtshakazi ofanelekileyo kunyana wakhe.

Okokugqibela, ndingathanda ukukuxelela ukuba umtshato ngummiselo nokumiselwa kwangaphambili, yaye ubhalwe nguThixo ngomhla okhethekileyo, ngoko ufanele waneliseke, ube nomonde yaye ukhunge, njengoko ezi zizitshixo ezibalulekileyo zokufumana indoda elilungisa kunye naye. uya kuchitha ubomi bakho bonke.