UDalida Ayyash uthetha ngamava akhe ngomhla woMqhushumbo wePort yaseBeirut

UDalida Ayyash uthetha ngamava akhe ngomhla woMqhushumbo wePort yaseBeirut 

Kudliwano-ndlebe kunye nephephancwadi elithi "My Lady", uDalida Ayyash, umfazi kaRami Ayyash, wathetha ngamava akhe obuqu xa ichweba laseBeirut laqhuma. Kwaye kwincoko:

Sixelele, ubuphi phambi kogqabhuko-dubulo?

Ngaloo ntsasa, ekubeni ndandingummi waseBrazil, ndaya kwindlu yozakuzo yaseBrazil eBeirut ukuya kugqibezela amanye amaphepha aphathelele oonyana bam ukufumana ilungelo lokuba ngabemi baseBrazil. Ndabhalisa nomtshato wam kumzi wozakuzo. Ukugqiba kwam ukwenza izinto ndabuyela ekhaya ndaphakela oonyana bam ababini ndahlala nabo into engange 4 hours ndingekayi ebuhleni bendawo yase Ashrafieh ibingathi intliziyo yam ibingathi kukho into eyenzekayo. Ndeva isandi sokuqala esingxolayo, yaye umninimzi wakhwaza esithi lugqabhuko-dubulo. Kodwa ndandicinga ukuba yinyikima ndaza ndayithatha njengentlekisa. Ndathabatha amanyathelo amabini, ndaza ndemka kancinane efestileni, emva koko “ihlabathi lagqabhuka.” Ndabhabha ndisuka kwindawo endandihlala kuyo yaye ndandingasayiqondi into eyenzekileyo. Kwaye ngoku ndiyangcangcazela njengoko ndikuxelela ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Ngoko nangoko ndakhumbula unyana wam. Ndabacela ke kuThixo ukuba abakhusele, ndathi kuye oonyana bam bobabini, ngokhuseleko lwakho, ndibanikele kuwe, ndikulungele, ndithathe nje ubakhusele, umxelele uThixo ukuba ngulomzuzu ufuna ngawo na lo. ndithabathe, uze undithabathe.

Ngaba wakha wacinga ngokufa ngelo xesha?

Ndakubona ukufa ngaloo mzuzu. Ndaziva ngathi umphefumlo wam uphumile emzimbeni wam, andikwazi kuyichaza into endiyivayo kwaye akukho mazwi anokuyichaza into eyenzekayo. Ndaziva ngathi andisekho phantsi, ndithe xa ndivula amehlo ndabona ukuba ndisekhona ndothuka andaqonda ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Andikhumbuli ukuba ndawa phi kwaye yonke into yenzeka ngemizuzwana nje. Into endiyaziyo kukuba ndithe xa ndiphakama ndafumana wonke umntu ekhala ephuma kuyo yonke indawo, ndabe ndim ndedwa ezolileyo phakathi kwabo, ndabuya ndatsho ngokuzolileyo ngegama likaThixo, Onofefe, Onofefe. Ndiye ndazijonga ndafumana igazi elininzi livuza kum. Ndandinganxibanga zihlangu, ndajonga yonke le nto iphambi kwam, ndazibuza ukuba ndenzeni, ndibaleke okanye ndihlale apho ndikhoyo, ndaphinda ndacinga ukuba kubhetele ndihlale apho ndikhoyo.

Yayingubani umsindisi wakho emva kogqabhuko-dubulo?

Abafana base salon abandishiyanga. Ndiye ndafowunela uRami yabe icimile I line yakhe, ndafowunela lomfana uphangelayo wethu weza saya esibhedlele ngoko nangoko. Babefuna ukundisa kwisibhedlele saseAshrafieh, ngoko ndakhwaza ndibacela ukuba baye kwisibhedlele esikufuphi noonyana bam, yaye andizange ndivume ukuhlala eAshrafieh. Ndaza ndathi, Makube lee, ukuba kukho into entsha eza kwenzeka, ndandifuna ukuba kwicala labo.

Yeyiphi eyona nto inzima ayenzileyo uDalida?

Ndithe ndingena esibhedlele, izigigaba zamaxhoba, izikhalo zongxwelerhekileyo, kwaphalala igazi, ndisazi ukuba andizange ebomini bam ndenze nomthungo omnye emzimbeni wam, kodwa amanxeba am kunye nokuthungwa kwam kwakuye. akukho nto iphambi koloyiko endalubonayo kumaxhoba ogqabhuko-dubulo esibhedlele. Ngoku kukho malunga ne-35 stitches esandleni sam, kwaye isandla sam sasekhohlo sibuhlungu ngaphezu kwesokunene, ngakumbi kwindawo yengqiniba, ukongeza kwi-9 stitches empumlweni yam kunye ne-4 ezinyaweni zam. Ndandinganxibanga zihlangu yaye ndiyambulela uThixo ngendlela iglasi eyaphukileyo engazange inqumle ngayo iinyawo zam, yaye kude kube ngoku andazi ukuba ndasinda njani kuloo nto.

Imizuzu yeentlungu, umbuyisa njani uDalida ngoku?

Intlungu yam ayibalulekanga njengoloyiko endaluvayo ngomyeni wam, oonyana bam bobabini, nomama nabantakwethu.Asindim ndedwa oye wafumana le mvakalelo, kodwa yonke iLebhanon yayiphila ngaloo ndlela, kwanabo babengekho apho eLebhanon babephila ngaloo ndlela. Intliziyo yolu dubulo yachatshazelwa kuko. Ndaye ndakhululeka xa ndibona uRami esibhedlele ndaziva ndikhuselekile xa esecaleni kwam, wayezama ukundikhulula kwelinye icala, kwelinye icala enceda abadinga uncedo, yaye ngalo lonke elo xesha wayendixelela. : “Uhambe kakuhle”, kodwa bendimjongile ndafika amehlo akhe ethetha enye into, ndabona ulahleko noloyiko kuye. Bendiqala ukumbona ekule meko, uye wazama ukundithulisa endiqinisekisa ukuba akhonto yenzekayo kumntu osondeleyo kuthi naba bendikunye nabo. Ubukho bukaRami babungabalulekanga kum kuphela, kodwa wayeza kunceda oogqirha basesibhedlele ababethunga abafana abangxwelerhekileyo kwaye bababambe izandla ukuba bakhulule.

Yayinjani intlanganiso noRami emva kogqabhuko-dubulo?

Bendinxibe iblukhwe eBeige, uthe akulibona igazi liphuma kum lindigquma impahla, wandoyika kakhulu wabuza ugqirha ngomthombo wegazi nokuba kwenzekani kum, ndibulela u Thixo ngento yonke. Sahlala esibhedlele ixesha elingange 6 hours, ndathi xa ndifika endlini, ndafumanisa ukuba uAram akazange alale kwangethuba njengoko wayeqhele ukwenza, ngokungathi wayevakalelwa kukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle ngam. Zange ndikhale okanye ndichukumiseke yiyo yonke into eyenzekayo kodwa ndathi ndakubona unyana wam zavele zehla iinyembezi.

Into endivisa kabuhlungu kukuba ndandingekho secaleni kwabo xa kwakuqhushumba, kwaye andazi ukuba babevakalelwa njani xa kwakusenzeka. Basebancinci abakwazi ukuzityand’igila, ndiyambulela uThixo ngokukhatshwa ngulomzi kunye nomalume, indlu yam yenziwe ngeglasi yonke kodwa ndiyambulela uThixo ukuba ayizange iwe okanye yophuka.

Ngaba woyika kakhulu namhlanje?

Kubusuku bokuqala ndilele emva kogqabhuko-dubulo eBeirut, kwakubuhlungu ndaye ndoyika iglasi yendlu. Ngosuku olulandelayo, uRamy wagqiba kwelokuba andise kwindlu esezintabeni, ukuze ndingasakwazi ukunyamezela ukubona omnye woonyana bam ehleli ngasefestileni yaye ndaqalisa ukukhala ngokukhawuleza, ndisazi ukuba oku kwakuya kuthabatha ixesha ukuze ndikwazi ukuphuma. ngayo.

Ngaba uDalida wayesoyika ukuba umzobo wakhe uza konakala?

Zange, kwaye oku akuzange kwenzeke kum. Ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje, andikayazi nokuba impumlo yam ifuna utyando lweplastiki okanye akunjalo, kuba wathi xa ugqirha wandinyanga, amanxeba ayenzulu, yaye ndiyakhumbula esithi kum, “Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka utyandwe ngeplastiki kamva.” andikhathali. Kwaye nabani na okubona ukufa ngamehlo akhe akayi kuba nandaba nembonakalo yakhe.

Ngaba ubunoloyiko ngabantwana bakho?

Ngaphezu kokuba ucinga. Ngelixesha ndisesibhedlele, ndaxelela uRami ukuba ndifuna ukuthatha oonyana bam ababini ndihambe, andifuni bahlale apha. Njengaye nawuphi na umama, ndisoloko ndibanqwenelela okuhle oonyana bam ababini, yaye bonke abazali bayazibhokoxa belungiselela ikamva labantwana babo, yaye ndiyambulela uThixo kuba ndingulowo wonzakeleyo kugqabhuko-dubulo ngoxa babesekhaya. Wanga uThixo anganika umonde kuwo wonke umama olahlekelwe ngabantwana bakhe, kwaye akukho mazwi achaza usizi lwelahleko. Andazi ukuba mandithini.

Ramy Ayach, ndiyathemba ukuba uDalida uyakuyoyisa le ntlekele ngomonakalo omncinci