Nanga amanye amacebiso okwenza isithandwa sakho sihlale sicinga ngawe:

Ukuba ulinde ixesha elide ukuba umthandi wakho akubize kwaye uzive engenamdla wakhe kuwe, eli nqaku liza kukukhokelela kwisisombululo.

Ingcali ngobudlelwane ithi, “Ukuba ufuna umfana wakho akubize ngakumbi, menze akukhumbule ngakumbi.”

Ezi ngcebiso ziya kwenza isithandwa sakho sikukhumbule kwaye sisoloko sikubiza

Sukuba lula:

Ubume bengqondo yendoda ithanda ibhinqa elimele umngeni kuye, ngoko ke makhe enze umgudu owongezelelweyo wokufikelela kuwe, nokuba kunzima ukuxhathisa ukulangazelela kwakho.

Amaxesha ngamaxesha uzenze ngathi uxakekile.

Indoda iyadikwa xa ivakalelwa kukuba usoloko ufumaneka kuyo, kodwa ukuba uyaqhelisela eli qhinga, uya kwenza umzamo ongakumbi wokuhambisana neemeko zobomi bakho, atshintshe isitayile sakhe ukuze ahlale eyazi imicimbi yakho kwaye ayigcine. iimvakalelo zakho ngakuye

Musa ukuqhubeka uqhagamshelana naye.

Ukuba ungomnye wabanini balo mkhwa mbi kufuneka uwuyeke.. Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngokuphindaphindiweyo okanye ukudibana rhoqo kumenza azive ukuba unobuntu obuqinileyo, phawu olubangela ukuba indoda ikruquke ngawe kwaye uya kuyenza ivakalelwe. ukuba usukelwa nguwe, kwaye olu phawu lumenza azive ecatshukiswa bubukho bakho ukongezelela ekuphulukaneni nendoda imvakalelo yokukulangazelela.

Ndifike emva kwexesha ekuphenduleni:

Sukungxama ukuphendula ifowuni yakho kwaye kamva unokumfowunela kwaye ucele uxolo ngesizathu sokuba uxakekile kwaye ungaphenduli kwimiyalezo yakhe kwangoko, nokuba iyimfuneko kangakanani na imiyalezo, linda imizuzu eliqela ngaphambi kokuba uphendule.

Qeda umdibaniso kuqala:

Phambi kokuba avale umnxeba uyayazi loo nto, xa usenza njalo kuya kufuneka ukuba agqibezele oko kwakusenzeka emnxebeni, yaye usenokucinga ngawe nangendlela yokukufowunela, okona elinde ixesha elide. uthetha nawe, kokukhona uya kukukhumbula kwaye aphelise umnxeba wakho phambi kokuba udikwe ukuze ukubanda kungangeni kwiifowuni zakho ezilandelayo kwaye ezinye izihloko zihlala phakathi kwakho.

Jabulela ubomi bakho kude naye:

Ukuba ufuna ukuba anamathele kuwe ngamandla, musa ukumenza konke ebomini bakho, umzekelo, phuma kunye nabahlobo bakho kwaye umxelele ukuba uyonwabela kangakanani kunye nokubaluleka kwabo ebomini bakho, okumenza azive ephantsi. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kukukhumbula, esoyika ukuphulukana nawe, kwaye enze umgudu wokugcina eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe