Umntwana wakho ukrelekrele okanye ubukrelekrele obuqhelekileyo, ulibona njani inqanaba lobukrelekrele bomntwana wakho?

Kuye kube yinto enokwenzeka ukumisela inqanaba lobukrelekrele bomntwana wakho, kunye notyekelo lwakhe lweemvakalelo, kwangoko kakhulu, nangaphambi kokuba athethe njani.Ngengqondo eyomeleleyo kunye ne-IQ ephezulu kunoontanga babo abasekunene.

Uphononongo, iziphumo eziye zaxelwa liphephandaba laseBritani elithi "Daily Mail", lubonise ukuba sisebenzisa icala lasekunene lobuchopho bethu ukucubungula ulwazi olunxulumene nobuso, okwenza icala lasekhohlo lentsimi yethu yombono ilungele ukubona ubuso.

Uphononongo lubonise ukuba oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana obambe unodoli wakhe kwingalo yasekhohlo kubonisa ukuba unobuchule obungcono bokuqonda kunye nezakhono zentlalo.

Olunye uphando lwangaphambili lucebise ukuba ubuchopho babantwana abancinci abuhlukanisi ubuso bokucubungula, kodwa kunokuba basebenzise icala lasekhohlo lobuchopho ukuqonda amagama, kodwa uphononongo olutsha, olwenziwa kwiYunivesithi yaseLondon, lucebisa ngenye indlela.

Ngexesha lophononongo olutsha, uvavanyo lwenziwa kubantwana abali-100 abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-4 ukuya kwemi-5, apho abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba abantwana baqaphela umzobo wamandulo - oquka amachaphaza amathathu - ebusweni, kwaye xa banikwa umqamelo ongenanto, bawubona. akazange athomalalise, kodwa xa kuzotywe amachaphaza amathathu emqamelweni Bambona njengobuso baza baqalisa ukumgungqa okosana lokwenene.

Oku kuthetha ukuba iintsana zesandla sasekhohlo zabanika esona sikhundla sokuphatha ubuso, kwaye baqhuba ngcono kunabalingane babo abasekunene kuluhlu lwemisebenzi yengqondo nentlalontle abaphandi bayinike yona.

Kwelakhe icala, uGqirha Gilliam Forster, omnye wabaphathi bolu phando, wachaza ukuba le nto ibizwa ngokuba “yi-left immigrant bias”, kwaye yinto engaphelelanga nje ebantwini, kodwa ikho nakwiindidi ezininzi zezilwanyana ezifana nezi. iigorila kunye nabanye.

U-Forster ukwaveze ukuba ayintshanga, kodwa ayizange iqatshelwe ngaphambili, njengoko umyinge wamashumi asibhozo ekhulwini (80%) woomama benza okufanayo, bethwala iintsana zabo ngasekhohlo, ingakumbi kwiiveki ezilishumi elinesibini zokuqala xa iintsana ngabona basesichengeni kwaye zifuna ukujongwa ngokusondeleyo.