Amashumi amabini amacebiso okwenza kube lula kuwe ukuqonda ubomi

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1- Nguwe kuphela umntu ozama ukukususa.
2- Uphila kanye kuphela, khumbula ukuba rhoqo.
3- Kuzo zonke iinzame zokulibala lowo simthandayo, sisebenzela ukudibanisa iinkumbulo, akukho nto, akukho nto incinci.
4- Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba uthando lufana nokufa, ukuzingca kunye nequbuliso.
5- Ubomi abuyonto ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa kancinci kwezinto esizithandayo.
I-6- Ukuba ufuna ukubona izinto ngendlela ebekufanele ngayo, zihlube uthando kwaye uzikhuphele ngaphandle kokucinga, nokuba ziya ziba zintle ngakumbi okanye ziyinkohliso.
7- Unyoko nguye yedwa okwaziyo ukubuyisela umntwana qho.
8- Iqondo eliphezulu lokuqwalaselwa, kukugqithisa kokubonisa ukungahoywa.
9- Kufuneka ube lusizi ngamaxesha onke, kuba lunyango (lwexeshana) kuzo zonke iingxaki zeli hlabathi elibuhlungu.
10- Yiba nabantwana bakho ngaphandle kothando, umhlaba uyaphindaphinda, awunangqondo kwaye uyadika.
11-Uyafa xa inkanuko isifa, inkanuko yeyona iphambili.
I-12 - Ukuba usakhangela loo mntu oya kutshintsha ubomi bakho, jonga kwisibuko, kwaye uzame ukuba yedwa.
13-Uthando lufana nentiyo, iimvakalelo ezingafunekiyo.
14- Musa ukoyika izinto zokwenyani, kodwa loo maphupha angasoze azaliseke.
15- Mamela umculo ngaphandle kwesizathu.
16 NguThixo yedwa onqabisekileyo kwisiphithiphithi salo mhlaba.
17- Thetha noThixo phambi kokuba ulale kwaye uthandaze entliziyweni yakho ngaphandle kokumanga.
18- Kweli hlabathi lilusizi yonke into ikhona akukho nto inokwenzeka, kulomhlaba wohlwaywa nje ngokuba ungumntu ophilayo.
19- Musa ukuvalelisa ekungatshatini kwakho ngaphandle kokuba wonele, kuba iminyaka ayibuyi tu.
20- Kufuneka uzithande izinto, ungadibanisi nazo.