Indlela yokujongana nomyeni onomsindo kwaye okruqulayo

Ndiziva ndidandathekile yaye oko kuyandibulala.” La mazwi aphindaphindwa ngabafazi abaninzi, kuba indoda ayinandima kubomi bentsapho njengoko umfazi enqwenela.” Kunoko, indoda ibonakalisa umkhwa odandathekisayo kakhulu obangela ukuba afinge iintshiyi ngalo lonke ixesha. indlu ngokukhawuleza xa ingena, ukuzola okudabukisayo kunqoba indawo kunye nabahlali bendawo, kuba Umyeni uthwala iimpawu zenombolo yobuso bakhe "111", ebonisa ukufiphaza kwebunzi kunye nekosharyah.

Amanye amadoda acinga ukuba le yenye yeemfuneko zewonga elimele libe phakathi kwamalungu entsapho, njengoko ngamanye amaxesha lisiko lentlalo-ntle elizuzwe njengelifa phakathi kootata noonyana, ukuba umntu wenza lula nentsapho yakhe aze ayizisele ulonwabo, udumo lwakhe luyalahleka, kwaye I wrongo le nto kodwa ixhaphakile, okanye ingaba Yindalo emntwini, kodwa ingxaki yeyokuba umfazi uziva eyedwa nale ndoda ingenawo naliphi na ixesha elimnandi naye, kwaye akaboni kuyo. ubomi nantoni na ngaphandle kwemisebenzi kunye nemithwalo ngaphandle kwawo nawaphi na amaxesha okuzihlaziya kunye nabona bantu basondeleyo kuye, kwaye olu hlobo lwabayeni lufuna ubuchule ekusebenzisaneni.

Kungenxa yoko le nto sibeka iingcebiso ezandleni zomfazi ukuze alungise ubume bomyeni wakhe, kwaye inqanawa yobomi inokuqhubeka nobuncinci bokuphazamiseka:

1- Ukuba awuthandi ukuba indlu yakho ihlale imnyama kwaye ithe cwaka ngolu hlobo, ngoko zifanelekele ukuba uya kuthatha indima yomqalisi kulo mbandela, kwaye uya kunqumla iimeko ezihlekisayo kwaye uvule izihloko ezinomdla kunye naye.

2- Qinisekisa ukuba wena nosapho lwakho ninomsebenzi ongengowesiqhelo, kwaye niya kuthwala uxanduva olupheleleyo lokulungiselela oko, njengokucwangcisa ipikniki ekupheleni kweveki kuyo nayiphi na indawo emnandi, nokudlala kunye nabantwana. .

3- Qaphela ukuba kukho izinto eziqhelekileyo zokuzonwabisa phakathi kwakho, njengokuzoba okanye ukuhombisa okulula, okanye ukuba nobabini nibukele iTV okanye nibelane ngabantwana benu ngokubukela iimuvi zekhathuni, umzekelo, imisebenzi yabantwana iyonwaba ngokwabo, kwaye nokuba Umyeni akathabathi nxaxheba nawe, uyakhululeka kuwe Nangabantwana bakho.

4- Qiniseka ukuba unesangqa sabantu obaqhelileyo njengezalamane, izihlobo okanye abamelwane abasondeleyo, ukuze uphume nabo okanye ubatyelele kwaye uyonwabele loo nto, ukuze konke ukuzonwabisa kungapheleli endodeni yakho kuphela. , osenokukudanisa maxa wambi aze ngaloo ndlela ahlale phakathi kwesangqa sodandatheko.

5- Zama kangangoko ukuba ube nabahlobo abafanayo, wena kunye nomyeni wakho, abaququzelela ukutyelelwa kosapho kunye nabo, nokuba ngamaxesha athile, njengoko olo tyelelo lutshintsha kakhulu kwindlela yokuphila kunye nemonotony yobomi kunye neencoko eziqhelekileyo.

6- Kuya kufuneka ube nezinto ozithandayo okanye izinto ozonwabisa ngazo xa uziqhelanisa nazo, njengoko ezi zinto zingakunyanzeli ukuba ulinde umntu ukuba wonwabe okanye akuzisele ulonwabo.

7- Okokugqibela, ukuba wonganyelwe ngamaqhinga, kwaye isimilo somyeni wakho sisongamela, kubalele oku kuThixo.Ewe, yenye yemisebenzi yendoda ephathelele emfazini ukumthuthuzela nokumthuthuzela.