Ubachaphazela njani abantu kwaye ubaluleke kakhulu kubo?

Kubantu abaninzi ukuthanda abantu yeyona nto ibalulekileyo, kunoko, yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini babo, yaye abanye bayaphumelela ekwenzeni oko. Kwaye abanye babo basilela kabuhlungu

Ukujongana nabantu kubugcisa ngaphezu kwesayensi, ngoko kufuneka ukhumbule ngelixa ujongene nabantu ukuba awujongani nabantu abanengqiqo; Kodwa abantu beemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo.

Uphumelela njani uthando lwabantu kuwe ngokulula? ! .

Bonisa umdla ebantwini Ukuba sifuna ukuzuza izihlobo, masizinikele ekukhonzeni abanye abantu, yaye masibolule isandla esinyanisekileyo nesiluncedo esingenabugovu nokuzingca.

Ndiyancuma Inkangeleko yobuso ithetha ngelizwi elinzulu kunolwimi, ngenxa yesi sizathu yenza uncumo lwakho lube sisigxina kuye wonke umntu olwamkelayo.

Biza omnye umntu igama olithandayo Eyona nto intle ukuba iindlebe zethu zinokuva ngamagama ethu.

Buza udliwano-ndlebe imibuzo ocinga ukuba uya kukuvuyela ukuyiphendula :

Mkhuthaze ukuba athethe ngesiqu sakhe nangomsebenzi wakhe nangenkalo ayingcungcuthekisayo, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba isithethi sakho sizikhathalele, iminqweno yaso neengxaki zaso ngokuphindwe kayikhulu kunokuba sikukhathalele nangeengxaki zakho.Mphulaphuli olungileyo, khuthaza isithethi ukuba sizithethele.

Thetha nomntu othetha naye Ukuba unako, zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni eyenza omnye umntu onwabe ngaphambi kokuba udibane naye

Kutheni usoloko uthetha ngento oyithandayo? Ngokucacileyo, uyayithanda into oyithandayo yaye uya kusoloko uyithanda, kodwa isithethi sakho sisenokungabelani nawe ngolu thando, ngoko eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphembelela omnye umntu kukuthetha naye ngoko akuthandayo nakufunayo, uze umbonise indlela yokwenjenjalo. yifumane.

Sonke siyakuthanda ukuziva sixatyiswa. Hlala usenza omnye umntu azive ebalulekile, kwaye masinike abanye oko sithanda ukuphiwa

 "Ukubaluleka, yiba nomdla."

Zithobe kangangoko unako, kuba abantu bahlukanisiwe nabo baphakamileyo kunabo: Kwaye kuphephe ukuthetha ngeengenelo zakho, iimpawu zakho ezintle kunye nempumelelo yakho, kwaye uvumele omnye umntu aziqaphele, kodwa bonisa umdla wakho kunye noxabiso ngazo zonke iinkcukacha zomsebenzi wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kulula kangakanani kuwe.