Indlela yokugcina okubi kakhulu kuwe ngokomthetho wokukhanga?

Ubunyani bobomi bakho ngoku yimveliso yento obuyicinga ngaphambili kwaye into ocinga ngayo ngoku likamva lakho, kwaye amandla wamandla ezinto alala naphi na apho ugxininise khona.

Abantu abaninzi bazicingela ngokugqithiseleyo iingxaki zabo baze banikel’ ingqalelo kuzo, nto leyo ebangela ukuba izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi zize zibenze babambelele ngakumbi kubomi babo, kambe ke abazifuni iingxaki, kodwa abayekeli ukunikel’ ingqalelo kwiingxaki zabo, yaye abazifuni. izifo, kodwa bahlala bethetha ngezifo zabo kunye nokoyika ukugula, abafuni ukuhlala beqinile, kodwa bagxininisa kwimiba yeendleko eziphezulu zokuphila, imivuzo ezinzileyo kunye nokungabikho kwamathuba emisebenzi.

Kufuneka ugqibe ukuba yintoni ongayifuniyo ebomini bakho kwaye uyigxothe ekucingeni kwakho nasemazwini akho ngokupheleleyo, nto leyo yonke into ephikisana nempumelelo, ubutyebi, impilo kunye nolonwabo.Ukucinga, iimvakalelo okanye amagama kwinto ongayifuniyo

Njengoko oku kusebenza kubudlelwane bakho basekuhlaleni, imbono yakho ngabantu yiyona nto igqiba ubudlelwane bakho nabo.Umntu okhalaza kakhulu malunga nabo bamngqongileyo ngoyena usesichengeni sokwenzakala kwaye ufumana kumntu ochasene nayo yonke into engalunganga nembi ngokwenene. kwaye okwahlukileyo kuyinyaniso.

Ngoko ke kufuneka utshintshe ugxininiso lwakho kwinto “ongayifuniyo” uye kwinto “oyifunayo” kwaye ujike sonke isikhalazo sibe ngumnqweno onamandla wokuchasa.” Endaweni yokugxila kwintlupheko, gxila kubutyebi, kwaye endaweni yokujolisa. Ngokugula, gxila kwimpilo, kwaye endaweni yokukhalaza.Kwiingxaki, yenza umnqweno wakho wokufumana izicombululo, kwaye endaweni yokukhalaza ngokuziphatha okubi kwebutho labantu, qala wenze umbono wakho ube mhle.