Uqinisekisa njani ukuba uthando lwakhe luyinyaniso kwaye lunzulu kuwe?

Unokuqiniseka njani ngokunyaniseka kothando lwakhe kunye nokunyaniseka kwakho, kuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba amazwi amnandi kangakanani, ingqondo yomfazi ihleli ixhalabile, kwaye umbuzo uhleli, ndingaqiniseka njani ngokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zakhe, kwaye njani? ingaba ndiqinisekile ukuba andiyiyo inombolo yokupasa ebomini bakhe, kwaye ndiyabheja ngale nto? uthando ??

Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, kukho imibuzo emininzi kunye neempawu ezicacileyo ezikwenza wahlule phakathi kwendoda engenangqondo nengqongqo, indoda ekuthandayo iya kukutshata, kunye nendoda ekuthandela ukuzonwabisa.

Yiyiphi le mibuzo, uya kuyifumana kweli nqaku ngokweenkcukacha

Ngaba uyabubona ubuso bokwenene bobuntu bakhe?

Uthando lokwenyaniso lubangela ulwaneliseko olupheleleyo ekuqhubaneni nomnye umntu.” Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ukuphathe ngobuntu bakhe bokwenyaniso, obusenokungabonakali kwiinkqubano zakhe nabanye, oku kububungqina bokuba ulwalamano lwenu lulwalamano oluhle. Ukusebenzelana kwakhe lula nawe, apho ebonisa indalo yakhe ezenzekelayo, ukuze kungafuneki ukuba ahlale ecinga ngezenzo okanye izenzo zakhe, njengoko kubonakala kwiinkqubano zakhe ezinzulu nabantu abangabaziyo, ubungqina bothando lwakhe kunye nokuziva ekhululekile phambi kwakho.

Iimpawu zothando endodeni

Ngaba uziva evuya xa ekufutshane nawe nangeentsuku ezinzima? Ukuba unosuku olunzima kodwa usakuvuyisa, luphawu lothando olo.
Iimvakalelo zakhe ngawe zenza ukuva ilizwi lakho okanye ukubona iimpawu zakho zibe nesizathu esaneleyo sokuba azive engcono kwaye ekwimo engcono, nokuba luphuculo oluncinci.

Ngaba uthetha nawe neyakho indlela avakalelwa ngayo?

Ukuba ubandezeleka ngenxa yeemvakalelo ezibuhlungu ezinganyamezelekiyo okanye ezicinezelayo, yaye ububona kuye umkhamo wempembelelo yakhe nembonakaliso yokudinwa kwakho kuye, obu bubungqina bothando nolwalamano olomeleleyo nawe. akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubekwimeko embi ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni njengawe, kodwa kufuneka yenzeke ngendlela engcono. yendaloUkuchatshazelwa yindlela oziva ngayo kwaye uzame ukukunceda kwaye wenze wonwabe.

Iimpawu zokuba uqala ukuphulukana nothando lwakho

Ngaba uceba kwangaphambili nawe?

Ukuba umntu ndikuthanda ngokwenene Umbono wokuba ube yinxalenye yekamva lakhe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ucacile kwaye uqinisekile, kwaye ayisiyiyo into anokuthi azive enexhala okanye engathembi ukuba loo mntu ebethetha ngendlela eqhelekileyo malunga nento eniya kuyenza kunye kwixesha elizayo, kwaye yintoni ubomi bokubambisana buya kubonakala ngathi kunyaka, iminyaka emibini, okanye iminyaka elishumi.Ubungqina bokuba uyakuthanda.
Ukuba uyakuthanda ngokwenene, wokwenzela izinto ezininzi ezilungileyo ungakhange ucele; Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha elinye iqela lifuna ukwaziswa ngesidingo sakho soncedo. Kwelinye icala, imfuneko yokuphindaphinda isicelo ngalo lonke ixesha kuthetha ukuba akanikeli ngqalelo kwiimfuno zakho aze ahlangabezane nazo ngokwaneleyo, yaye oku kububungqina bokungabikho kothando nothando kuye.
Ukuba uyakuthanda, kufuneka akuxhase ekufikeleleni usukelo lwakho nasekuphumezeni izilangazelelo zakho, kwanokuba oko akuyongenelo ngokuthe ngqo kuye. Kuphela kukukufumana usenza izinto ezinentsingiselo neziluncedo ebomini bakho. Kwaye ufezekise iinjongo zakho kwaye ujabulele ixesha lakho.
Ukuba ukuthanda ngokwenene, uya kukucela icebiso kunye noko ucinga ngako ngezinto ezinkulu nezincinane ebomini bakhe.