Uqhubana njani nomhlobo ongumngcatshi?

Abahlobo basisizathu esaneleyo sokusenza sonwabe.Ubuhlobo bokwenene lolona lwalamano lubalulekileyo noluphakamileyo ebantwini, ngoko xa uthembela umhlobo, usenokuvakalelwa kukuba unobona butyebi buxabisekileyo ehlabathini, yaye ukungcatshwa nguye. , uya kuboniswa ukothuka kakhulu ngokwasengqondweni.Uhlangabezana njani neziphumo ezingalunganga ngokwasengqondweni xa uthe wangcatshwa ngumntu othandana naye?

1- Kwasekuqaleni naphambi kokuba uzibeke kudidi lwexhoba, kufuneka uzihlolisise ngokuphandle kwaye uzame ukuqonda isizathu esibangele ukuba akungcatshe okanye akwenzakalise.

2- Zama kangangoko ukuba umamele izithethe zakhe kwaye uqonde ukuba yintoni ebangele ukuba akuphathe kakubi.Ukuvuma impazamo kukuzisola nokucela uxolo.Ndixolele, kodwa ulumke.

3- Ukuba awufumani nasiphi na isizathu sokuziphatha kwakhe kakubi, musa ukuwa.La maqhuma sesinye sezona zifundo zibalulekileyo ebomini, kwaye zizo ezikwenza ukhule ngakumbi kwaye ube namava ebomini.

4- Ungabuhoyi ubukho bakhe, ungahoyi iinkumbulo zakho kunye naye, kunqande ukuxoxa ngomcimbi wakhe nabani na, kwaye ungenzi nayiphi na impendulo yokuziphindezela.

5- Menze azisole, kwaye oko kwenzeka kuphela ngokukuphatha kakuhle, nokuba ukude.. Ukugcina ubudlelwane, ubuhlobo, kunye neemfihlo phakathi kwakho kubonisa ukuziphatha kwakho okuhle, kwaye oku kuya kumenza azisole ngento alahlekelwe yiyo.

I-6-Funda isifundo kumothuko wakho kubudlelwane obulandelayo, esingakuxeleli umhlobo omtsha ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kuwe kubuhlobo bakho obudala ukuze uphephe ukwenza impazamo efanayo kwakhona.