Indlela yokoyisa ukudandatheka kunye nokudandatheka emva kokulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi?

Ukuphelelwa ngumsebenzi akuyonto ingabonwayo.Ukuphelelwa ngumsebenzi kufuneka kukukhokelele kwiingxaki ezininzi zengqondo kunye neentlekele ezinokukhokelela ekubeni udandatheke kwaye ube likheswa, kodwa yiba nomonde.kodwa thoba isantya , Akukubi kangako, ngokutsho kwephephandaba iMirror, enye yezona ngcali zibalulekileyo zengqondo, ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi kunokuba sisiqalo esingcono, sobomi obungcono.

Apho ibhinqa elaphelelwa ngumsebenzi lathumela kwiphephandaba laseBritani, lisithi kumbhalo wale leta: “Ndilibhinqa elineminyaka engama-40 ubudala, yaye ndiye ndaziva ndiphoxeke kakhulu, okoko ndaphelelwa ngumsebenzi ngo-Oktobha. Andizange ndikwazi nokuba nomdla kwiKrisimesi, nangona iqabane lam kunye nosapho lwam benza konke okusemandleni abo ukundivuyisa. Ngokwemali, izinto zilungile; Kaloku iqabane lam linomsebenzi, kwaye liyakwazi ukuhlawula iindleko zethu, kwaye ndifumene imali, eya kuba luncedo ebomini bam. Kodwa ingxaki kukuba, ndandiwuthanda ngokwenene umsebenzi wam, yaye sele ndineminyaka eli-10 ndilapho. Ndakhe isangqa sam sentlalo malunga nabantu endisebenza nabo, kwaye ngoku ndiziva ndilahlekile ngokupheleleyo. Iba ngathi ndiqala phantsi ndineminyaka engama-23, kwaye andinathemba lokwenjenjalo. Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuzama, ngoko ndenze iinzame ezisuka entliziyweni zokufumana enye indima kwenye indawo. Unxunguphalo bendisebenza ixesha elizeleyo ukusukela kwi-XNUMX, kwaye andazi enye into. Ndihlala ndisehla iinyembezi ngaphandle kwesizathu, kwaye andikwazi ukugqithiswa yimincili. Iyandicaphukisa into yokuba ndiyekile emsebenzini, ngoxa abanye besala. Ayindiphazamisi, njengoko ndihlala ndiziva ngathi ndinethemba, kodwa indophule ngokwenene, kwenzeke ntoni?"

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Ithuba elingcono likulindile !!!!!!

UColin, ingcaphephe kwinzululwazi ngezentlalo, uyaphendula:
“Okokuqala, ndingathanda ukukuxelela ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ziqhelekile, kuyinto enkulu ukuphulukana nento obunayo phantse iminyaka elishumi, ebiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Ukwindawo ongayaziyo, ehlala isoyikisa.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuphulukana nomsebenzi wakho kunokuba lithuba elihle lokwenza into entsha, kwaye uphucule ubomi bakho ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Kwezi ntsuku, ukuguqula i-17 kuthetha ukuba usemncinci, kunye neminyaka eyi-XNUMX yamava amnandi onokuthi unikeze abanye abaqeshi.
Kulungile ukuthatha ixesha ngaphandle ukuba awukwazi ukuma, kungekhona nje ukuzakhela ngokwengqondo, kodwa ujabulele ukwenza oko ufuna. Awunakuze uphinde ulifumane elo thuba xa sele ubuyele emsebenzini, kwaye andifuni uzisole ngokuchitha ixesha ugxile kwizinto ezidlulileyo.”