Ulufumana njani uthando olulahlekileyo?

Udla ngokwenza impazamo, ungxamile, ucaphuke, uthethe namagama akhokelela ekulahlekeni, nibaninzi nithi xa nizolile niqale nicinge ukuba nizothini... Imeko yalowo ndimonileyo. , kwaye emva koko, ngaba ukuthembela kunye nonyango luya kubuyiselwa njengoko belunjalo ngaphambili?

1- Yamkela impazamo yakho:
Ukuvuma impazamo lelinye lamanyathelo okuqala okubuyisela ukuthenjwa komntu.Ukucela uxolo ngundoqo, ngokunyanisekileyo ukuthi “uxolo” nokuvumela inkqubo yokuchacha iqhube ikhondo layo.
2- Zithobe:
Wena nguwe owenze impazamo, sukulindela ukuba umntu omonileyo akuxolele ngokulula, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba usebenzele ukulungisa irelationship yakho nokubuyisela ukuthemba komntu kuwe, kwaye kufuneka uhlale ukhumbula ukuba uyadinga. amandla akho.
3- Yiba nomonde:
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza umntu aphinde akuthembe kukulinda, ungazikhathazi ngaloo nto, xa umntu omkhathazileyo ekutyhalela kude kuye, kuba efuna ixesha lokucinga ngawe, kwenzeke ntoni? Endaweni yoko, into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuzibekela usukelo lokuphuhlisa iimfuno zobomi bakho kwaye uzame ukufikelela Ukubuyisela ukuzithemba kwakhe kancinci kancinci.

4- Ungaze uxoke:
Ukuba ungomnye wabathetha ubuxoki obumhlophe kufuneka uyilahle le nyani, ukuba ufuna ukuphinda umthembe umntu, ukuxoka yenye yeendlela ezimenza abe kude nawe, soze akuthembe.
5- Gcina iingxaki zakho zabucala ziyimfihlo:
Le yindlela esebenzayo yokubuyisela ukuthenjwa komntu.Ukuba ukhe waxambulisana ngokushushu no-Uthando, musa ukuxoxa ngale ngxabano naye nabani na xa oko kungokwemvelo.Ungawuxubusha lo mbandela nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni, nangona kunjalo Kufuneka ulumke. malunga Musa ukupapasha iinkcukacha ezincinci, kuba ngokwenza oko unokuyibaxa ingxaki ngaphandle kokuqonda, kwaye ke imicimbi yakho iya kuba nzima ngakumbi.
6- Kuphephe ukwenza impazamo enye kabini:
Enye yezona ndlela zibalulekileyo zokubuyisela ukuthenjwa komntu kukuphepha ukwenza impazamo efanayo.Nalapha kwakhona, nokuba uxokile, wamkhohlisa, okanye waba nekratshi kwindawo ebekungenjalo.. Kufuneka uzingce ngayo.Ukuba ufuna eyakho. umntu omthandayo ukuba ahlale nawe kwixesha elizayo, kuya kufuneka ungaphindi impazamo oyenzileyo. .