Umqinisekisa njani umyeni wakho ngembono yakho kwaye umphumelele?

Salwa Azzam2020-06-27Uhlaziyo lokugqibela: 2020-06-27

Umqinisekisa njani umyeni wakho ngembono yakho...Mhlawumbi ukukholisa umyeni yenye yezona zinto zinzima abanye abafazi abajongana nazo, hayi ngenxa yokuba umbono wakhe awuchanekanga, kodwa oko kulele kwindlela ayibeka phambili ngayo loo mbono kwaye indlela aqhubana ngayo nendoda yakhe.Ukucenga ngokuxambulisana, ukukhalaza, ukukhala nokuphalaza iinyembezi akuncedi nto, yaye kunokongeza umlilo emlilweni kuze kuguqule umahluko osuka ekungaqondini nje ube yingxaki entsonkothileyo.

Umqinisekisa njani umyeni wakho ngombono wakho ngombandela kwaye umphumelele kwicala lakho?

Khetha indawo ezolileyo apho uhlala nomyeni wakho ukuze nithethe kunye kude neziphazamiso nazo zonke iintlobo zeziphazamiso.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthethe nomyeni wakho ngayo nantoni na, mbuze ukuba ixesha lilungile na. Ukuba ubonakala ecaphukile okanye akafuni kuthetha, wuhlonele umnqweno wakhe uze umbuze ngelinye ixesha eninokuthetha ngalo.
Musa ukuhlala phambi komyeni wakho, kodwa ecaleni kwakhe, njengoko ukuhlala kufuphi nomntu kumnika induduzo kwaye kunika indawo evulekileyo ukuqala ukuthetha nokuphumla kunye naye, ngokungafaniyo ukuhlala ejongene kunye nokujongana kwamehlo.
Veza iingcamango zakho kunye nezimvo zakho ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ngaphandle kokujija okanye ukujika ukuze ungalahlekelwa ngumdla kunye nengqalelo yomyeni wakho.
Gxininisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwiingongoma ezakhayo zenkupho nganye uze ushiye iingongoma ezilandulayo ngamanye amaxesha.
Ziphephe izidumbu kunye nokukhalaza phambi kwe umyeni wakhoLe ndlela yokujongana nayo iyayicaphukisa indoda kwaye iyayityhala ukuba inganikezeli kwiingcamango zakho kunye neemfuno zakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyayiphulaphula impendulo yomyeni wakho kunye nento ayithethayo, njengoko wayeqhele ukwenza kuwe. Ukupha ngembeko nokuphendula kuyingongoma ebalulekileyo yokufikelela ukuqonda nokukwazi ukucenga.
Mhloniphe umyeni wakho ngamaxesha onke. Ungalibali ukuthi kuye "nceda" kwaye uziphathe ngokuthozama kunye naye, ukuze iimfuno zakho kunye nezimvo zakho zingabi ngumthombo wokulawula nokucaphuka.
Ewe, konke oku kukongeza kwiindlela ezithambileyo zokumcenga, ezinjengokumnika okona kutya akuthandayo kwaye akuthandayo entliziyweni yakhe, okanye ukuvuselela uthando kunye neemvakalelo ngakuwe ngokumanga kunye nokuchukumisa okunyanisekileyo.