Ukomeleza njani ukuzithemba kwakho?

 Obo buntu bunentembelo emanyathelweni alo, lowo ushukumisa iindawo phantsi kweenyawo zakhe, yaye wonk’ ubani uphethukela kuye njengabancomayo.Ingaba yikumkanikazi evela kuThixo uSomandla, okanye sisiphumo soqeqesho oluqhubekayo?Sonke siya kobu bubuntu obunamandla obuzimeleyo, kwaye mhlawumbi eyona nto ibalaseleyo ekhokelela ekubeni umntu afezekise iinjongo zakhe bubuntu bakhe obuqinileyo kunye nokuzithemba xa umntu ezithembile ngokwakhe kunye nobuchule bakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufikelela kwinto ayifunayo nangemva kwexesha, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukulahlekelwa yintembelo kukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. kunokuba uphinde uwufumane, ke kuthetha ukuthini ukuzithemba? Yaye yintoni ekhokelela ekulahlekelweni kwayo? Inokufunyanwa njani kwakhona?

Ukuzithemba kuchazwa njengengqiqo yomntu ngaye kunye nexabiso lakhe, ukuguqulela le mvakalelo kwiintshukumo zakhe, izenzo, kunye namazwi ukongeza kwindlela yakhe yokujongana nabanye, xa ukuzithemba kwakhe kuphezulu, oku kuya kubonakala kwi. ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokwendalo kakhulu nabo bamngqongileyo kunye nokungakhathali kwakhe nantoni na; Kuba uyayazi indawo amakaye kuyo nendlela emayenziwe ngayo, ngoxa ukungabikho kwale ngqiqo kumenza ahlale evakalelwa kukuba ujongwe yaye usoloko exhalabile yaye esoyika.

Zeziphi izizathu zokungazithembi?

Ukunika izinto ezinkulu kunobukhulu bazo kunye neTweelha.

Ngalo lonke ixesha uziva ngathi abantu abakungqongileyo bakujongile kwaye bajonge neentshukumo zakho.

Ukungakwazi ukujongana nabanye, ngakumbi xa uziva uloyiko kunye nexhala malunga naziphi na izenzo zakho.

Imvakalelo eqhubekayo yokuba ungumntu obuthathaka kwaye ulandele abanye, njengokungakwazi kwakho ukwenza isigqibo kwizinto ezilula kakhulu.

Ngelishwa, imvakalelo yazo zonke ezi zizathu kwaye ngaphezulu ijika ibe yinyani, ukuba iguqulelwe kwinyani ebizwa ngokuba kukungazithembi, kwaye ezi zizathu zikhutshwa ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwisifundo esithile esifana nokufunda okanye umsebenzi kunye nokuvezwa okulandelayo. ukugxekwa kabukhali kunye nokwenzakalisayo lusapho kunye nabahlobo, ngaphandle kokuba uzithelekise wena nabanye ukusuka Ngokubhekiselele kwizakhono kunye namathuba, ngaphezu kokungathembeli kwabanye kwimiba elula njengabazali, umzekelo, kwaye ungakuniki ithuba lokubonisa ubungqina. ngokwakho, konke oku kukhokelela ekulahlekelweni kokuzithemba.

Elona nyathelo libalulekileyo kukuqinisa ukuzithemba kwakho, njani?

Makhe sikubonise namhlanje awona manyathelo abalulekileyo okomeleza ukuzithemba.

Okokuqala, kufuneka uhlale uzincoma, kuba nawuphi na umntu ebusweni balo mhlaba unemiba emihle eyahlula kwabanye, gxininisa kule miba kwaye uyisebenzise ngendlela efanelekileyo yokwenza umntu okhethekileyo, kodwa kufuneka ube. Lumka ungafikeleli kwinqanaba lokuzigwagwisa uzenze umntu ongenangqondo nongenamsebenzi.Izimvo zabanye abantu.

Hlala uzikhathalele, ngokukodwa inkangeleko yakho, ngokuqhelekileyo, xa umntu emhle yaye ecocekile, enoba sisinxibo okanye iinwele, uziva ekhululekile yaye anelisekile yaye akuyomfuneko ukuba ube nezinto ezintsonkothileyo ukuze ubukeke unobuhle, kuba ubuhle bungaphakathi. ukulula.

Zama ukwakha ubuhlobo obukhethekileyo, njengoko kunceda ukuba uxube kwaye ufunde malunga nemibono eyahlukeneyo kwaye ubandakanye iingxoxo eziluncedo eziphucula inqanaba lakho lengxoxo kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukuxuba amanani amakhulu abantu.

Yenza izinto ozonwabisa ngazo kunye nemisebenzi oyithandayo, njengemidlalo, umzekelo, ukongeza ekubeni sempilweni kwaye inenzuzo kumzimba wakho, ikwanceda ukuba ukhuphe amandla angalunganga ngaphakathi kwakho. Ngalo lonke ixesha zama izinto ezintsha kunye nezinto, inkqubo ibulala kwaye isusa ubuhle bezinto ezifihliweyo ngaphakathi.