Unokuba ngoyena unomtsalane njani?

Ingqikelelo yomtsalane wabasetyhini iyahluka kumntu ngamnye, ukuze azobe engqondweni yakhe iinkcukacha ezithile zomntu wasetyhini atsaleleke kuye, kodwa kukho iingqikelelo eziqhelekileyo ekungekho mntu wahluke ngazo kuzo zonke izinto ezithandwayo, indawo esingqongileyo kunye neenkcubeko, ezisuka kubuntu bakho. Umtsalane emehlweni akho kuqala ukuba ubonakale kuye wonke umntu okungqongileyo, siza kubona ezinye zezi zichazi:
Ukuhlala kude nesithethe: Le yenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu uCoco Chanel wathi kwingcebiso yakhe ngobuhle: "Ubuhle buqala xa uthatha isigqibo sokuba nguwe."
Sukuzitshintsha iimpawu zakho ezintle kwaye ungazisi ubuqhetseba kubuntu bakho, kuba ukuzenzela kunye nobuntu bendalo bungena ezintliziyweni zabo bonke abantu kwaye babenze bazive bekhululekile kwaye bonwabele ubukho bakho.

Ubuhle:

Ukunikela ingqalelo kwinkangeleko yakho kunye nokunyamekela ubuhle bakho kubaluleke kakhulu.Inkangeleko ngokubanzi inika impembelelo ebalulekileyo yokuqala kunye nombono malunga nobuntu bakho buphela.

Ubuhle bangaphandle bubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa asiyiyo yonke into. Ubuhle ayisiyiyo yodwa into esiyibonayo, kodwa inxulumene nobuhle bakho bangaphakathi, obuvela kukwaneliseka kwakho, ukuzithemba, kunye nobukhulu benkcubeko kunye nobukrelekrele bakho. .

Kuphephe ukuxoka:

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 Ifana nento yokucima zonke iinkcukacha ezintle zomntu, mhlawumbi ubone intombi yakho ixoka wacinga ukuba inethamsanqa kunamadoda, kodwa eneneni inethamsanqa elingaphandle kuphela, musa ukuzama ukutsala abantu ngale ndlela. Uhanahaniso okanye ubuxoki, kuba amehlo angathethiyo akhazimla kubuhle obungenakuphikiswa kunye nomtsalane.

Ubufazi

Ngokuqhelekileyo igama lobufazi liwela kwintelekelelo yethu ekuhendweni kunye nokuzama ukubonisa inkalo yesini kuphela kwibhinqa, kwaye le yenye yezona mpazamo ezinzulu kakhulu esinokuzenza ngenxa yokuba ubufazi abukho ngesihendo kwaye alutsali nabani na ngaphandle kwesizathu esithile. Injongo kunye nembeko ekusebenzelaneni, ithoni yelizwi elizolileyo kunye neentloni kunye nobuntu obuqinileyo ngaxeshanye.

hlela ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed