Ukufumana into oyifunayo, ezi zinto azivumelekanga kuwe

Ngenxa yokuba izinto azifezeki ngokucinga ngokuchasene nazo, kufuneka uyeke ukucinga ngayo yonke into echaseneyo:

Ubutyebi, impilo, ubomi obonwabisayo, kunye nempumelelo, ngoko ke awuvumelekanga koku kulandelayo:

1- Akuvumelekanga ukuba ucinge okanye uthethe ngokugula kunye neemeko zezigulane, okanye ufunde ngazo, okanye ubukele iinkqubo ezibonisa zona.

2- Akuvumelekanga ukuba ucinge okanye uthethe ngentlupheko kunye nobomi bamahlwempu, okanye ufunde ngabo okanye ubukele iinkqubo ezithetha ngabo.

3- Akufanele ucinge okanye uthethe ngentlupheko yentsapho yakho ukuba uvela kwintsapho ehluphekileyo, okanye malunga nobunzima bobomi bakho obudlulileyo kunye neengxaki zakho zemali okanye ezingezizo ezemali.

4- Akuvumelekanga ukuba uhambe nabantu ukuba bathetha phambi kwakho ngezinto ezingavumelekanga, kwaye kufuneka utshintshe umxholo wencoko okanye uyeke ukuhlala nabo.

5- Akuvumelekanga ukuba udibane nabantu abakhalaza kakhulu nabo bonke ababekade bezila bekhala ngethamsanqa ebomini.

Ngokukwanjalo abantu abangenathemba abajonga yonke into ngelensi emnyama kakhulu

Ukuphepha ukuthetha ngobuhlwempu, ukugula, okanye iingxaki zemali zentsapho yakho akuthethi ukuba uya kuba ngumntu omileyo.

Musani ukunceda abanye, musani ukunika abasweleyo, kwaye musani ukutyelela abagulayo.

Nceda wonke umntu okungqongileyo kodwa uzikhusele kwezo taboos zithintela inkqubela yakho.