Kutheni indoda icheat??? Ngaba indoda ngumngcatshi ngendalo???

Abafazi abaninzi bema njengamaxhoba phambi kombuzo omnye, ngulo uqhawuke intliziyo, baphelelwa kukuzithemba, beshiya ifuthe elibi kubudlelwane babo bekamva.Ingaba indoda ngumngcatshi ngendalo???????? ?

Asinakutsho ukuba indoda ingumngcatshi kwindalo yayo, kodwa kunokuthiwa indoda isoloko ifuna ibhinqa eliyintsomi eliyidwebileyo kwingcinga yakhe, okanye ibhinqa elifanelekileyo, kwaye le yinto engenakwenzeka !!! !

Umbono wobuntu obugqibeleleyo akulula ukubakho, ukuba ukhona, kwaye umntu obhinqileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko uyathandeka kwimo yakhe kunye nobufazi endodeni, uhlala emmele ekujoliswe kuko efuna ukufikelela kuye nokufumana. kufutshane naye, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba indoda ingumngcatshi kwindalo yakhe, xa ifumene indoda Ibhinqa elihlala entliziyweni yakhe kwaye lihlala kuye, kunzima ukuba athabatheke ngomnye.

 Kwangokunjalo ke, umfazi ufanele enze ubomi bakhe buzole nendoda, bungabi nangxaki kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze indoda ingazibandakanyi nobungcatshi nangasiphi na isizathu. Imbono yomfazi ngokungcatsha kunye nendima yakhe kuyo Owasetyhini usenokucinga ukuba enye indlela yokuziphatha kwendoda kukungcatsha, ngelixa ingajongwa njengengcaphephe.

Umfazi unokumgcina umlingane wakhe ekungcatshweni ngokwamkela umsebenzi wakhe kwaye angamphazamisi ngekhwele lakhe elihlala lihleli nelingenangqiqo, kunye nokwenza ubudlelwane bakhe kunye naye busekelwe ekuthembekeni nasekuqondeni, kwaye unomdla wokuba ubudlelwane obubanzi; Kubudlelwane bobuhlobo, ukuthembela, ukuqonda kunye nokwamkelwa, ngoko ke ibhinqa lidlala indima ebalulekileyo ekugcineni ukuqiniswa kobudlelwane, kunye nokugcina kude nokungcatsha. Ukongeza kwindima yowesifazane, indoda nayo ayikhululekanga kuxanduva, ngoko ke kufuneka yenze yonke imizamo yokufikelela kunye neqabane okanye isithandwa sakhe ubudlelwane obuluqilima nobohlukileyo, kwaye ingalishiyi iqabane layo igumbi lokuthandabuza nokukrokrela ubudlelwane, kwaye ukucaca kunye naye kwaye azive ekhuselekile, kwaye asebenze ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakhe, Unomdla wokumchazela iimeko zomsebenzi wakhe, kwaye angathathi kwezi meko isizathu sokuthethelela ukungcatshwa, okanye ukusondela kubafazi ngeendleko zobudlelwane bakhe, nokwamkela nokuqonda iqabane lakhe, kwaye aqiniseke ngaye, kwaye akafuni ukumtshintsha, okanye amcele ukuba ahluke kwindalo yakhe.