Kutheni amadoda ekopa ngaphezu kwabasetyhini?

Abanye abafazi bayazibuza ukuba kutheni indoda ingcatsha ngaphezu komfazi, kwaye ityhola indoda ngokuswela isidima kunye nokuziphatha.Asiwakhuphi amadoda, kodwa ngokwenene, ngokwendalo, atyekele ekungcatshweni ngabafazi, kwaye isizathu siya kulandela kunye. kweli nqaku namhlanje Ndingubani Salwa.
Okokuqala: umnqweno wokutshintsha: amadoda akhawuleza adikwe bubunyani bawo kunabafazi, ngelixa abafazi bethanda ukuzigcina.Indoda yiyo ephonononge imihlaba emitsha, ulwandle olutsha kunye neziqithi ezitsha, ngelixa ibhinqa inguye owayila ezolimo. kwaye endaweni yakhe nakwindawo ejikeleze umqolomba wakhe wafumanisa indlela yokukhulisa nokwandisa imbewu...
Amadoda athambekele ekuphumeni kwaye atshintshe i-atmospheres, abafazi bavame ukugcina usapho.

 Okwesibini: Ukunyaniseka: umfazi, ngokwendalo kunye nelifa lakhe, unyanisekile ngaphezu kwendoda.Ufuze ingcambu, ingcambu yomthi ebambelele emhlabeni, ekuqaleni, kwintsapho ... intyatyambo enika umungu kwaye isasaze emoyeni ukuze isasaze ezinye iintyatyambo, ngoko ke indoda ifuna ukufuduka ngaphezu komfazi, kwaye ke kulula Umele ayishiye intsapho yakhe, nokuba ngaba abazali okanye umfazi ungaphezulu. umfazi ... Ngombono wabafazi abathile ngexesha lokuzingca umyeni ukhetha phakathi kwakhe nonina, umzekelo, kwaye amadoda athile akhetha umfazi ngenxa yokunamathela kwabo ngokwasengqondweni nangokwenyama kuye, ngelixa umyeni esenza okufanayo kwaye ukhetha umfazi wakhe phakathi kwakhe nentsapho yakhe, unqabile kakhulu ukunqunyulwa Umfazi ugcina ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nosapho lwakhe, nokuba luyimfihlo, kwaye ukuba uyaluqhawula ngamandla, isizathu ngumnqweno wakhe wokuhlala ecaleni kwakhe. abantwana kwaye ubakhulise.

Okwesithathu: Uluntu: Uluntu luyakwamkela ukungcatshwa kwendoda ngaphezu kokuba ivuma ukungcatshwa ngumfazi.Kususela kumaxesha amandulo, isohlwayo somfazi oqhathayo siqatha kunesohlwayo sendoda eqhathayo, nentsomi yamaGrike kaYason noMedi. , umzekelo, ugwetye ukungcatshwa kukaMedea kwintsapho yakhe ngokuphindwe kabini njengoko wayegweba uJason ukumngcatsha kunye nomnye umfazi ... Kwelinye icala, abafazi bayayoyika Ukugwetywa koluntu kungaphezu kwento eyoyikayo yindoda, kuba kwinqanaba ukungathembeki emtshatweni, ihlazo libangelwa kwintsapho yomfazi ongumngcatshi kunye nosapho lwakhe kwaye lidlulele kubantwana bakhe, ngelixa ihlazo lichaphazela kuphela indoda ethengisayo kwaye ayidluli kubantwana bayo ... Ngenxa yolonwabo, ngelixa ihlabathi liphakama kwaye lenza angahlali entlokweni yomfazi ongcatsha umyeni wakhe nangobudlelwane obunye bothando... Kwaye ngelixa uluntu lucinga ukuba isizathu sokungcatshwa kwendoda ngomfazi ngumfazi ngokwakhe ngokutyeshela yena kunye nesiqu sakhe kwaye ufunela indoda izizathu kunye nesizathu sokungcatshwa kwendoda. izizathu zokungcatshwa kwakhe, uluntu ngokwalo luqwalasela ukuba isizathu sokungcatshwa komfazi Umyeni wakhe unesimo esibi kunye nokuziphatha okubi, kwaye umyeni ufumana izizathu kunye nezizathu zokumbulala, umzekelo, njengesohlwayo kuye ... Kukho i-so. -ebizwa ngokuba yimbeko yolwaphulo-mthetho, apho umyeni wohlwaywa kuphela ngesohlwayo esincitshisiweyo xa Urhanela nje ukuba unkosikazi wakhe ngumngcatshi kwaye umbulala ngenxa yokurhanela kwakhe, lo gama akukho tyala lokuhlonitshwa ukuba umfazi uthe wabamba indoda yakhe ebhedini yomtshato kunye nomfazi wesibini elalana ngokupheleleyo aze ayibulale, emva koko wohlwaywa ubomi. ukuvalelwa entolongweni okanye ukufa... Ulwaphulo-mthetho lwembeko kukoyika ukuwongwa komfazi yindoda, Ngoxa umthetho ungacingi ukuba uloyiko lomfazi ngesidima somyeni wakhe lufanelekile, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba aluyigqali imbeko yomyeni njengeyoyikwa.

Okwesine, nelona libalulekileyo: Ukukhululeka: Ngaphambili, nangenxa yokuba indoda isebenza ngaphezu kwebhinqa, ukunxibelelana namanye amabhinqa emsebenzini okanye ebomini kwakulula endodeni kunakwibhinqa elisekhaya nakubantwana balo. Kodwa ngenkqubela-phambili yobomi ingakumbi ngokuvela kwamajelo onxibelelwano endiwabiza ngokuba yi-anti-social media, iye yajika.Kule vesi ibhinqa elihlala ekhaya lingafumana ixesha elaneleyo lokwazana namakhulu amadoda ngoFacebook. okanye uWhatsapp, umzekelo, xa uthelekisa nendoda echitha ixesha elininzi emsebenzini.Kule mihla, abafazi banabo “izihlobo” ezininzi, kwaye bayakwazi ukuvula iincoko ezithatha iiyure ngexesha nangezihloko ezikhethekileyo. ngelixa esegumbini lakhe lokuphumla.......
Emva kwe "revolution" yeendaba ezingezizo ezoluntu, kwakukho "inguquko" yokuziphatha kwintsapho ehamba kunye nokuchithwa kwenani elikhulu leentsapho ngenxa yentetho emnandi abafazi abayivayo kwaye bayiva kwi-Intanethi ... A kakhulu isixhobo esincinci ubungakanani besiqingatha sesandla sesandla siselfowuni eyatshabalalisa zonke iintsapho kunye noluntu kwimeko yabo.... Ngokombono wam, ukungcatshwa nge-Intanethi akwahlukanga ekungcatshweni kokwenyani.Isenzo ngasinye esikhokelela kuqhekeko entsatsheni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba silula kangakanani na, kukungcatsha ubungcwele bobudlelwane bomtshato, nayo yonke inkcazo ethethwa ngumfazi. endodeni, ngeendlela zonxibelelwano, ukuba akanakutsho phambi komyeni wakhe, usapho lwakhe kunye nabantwana bakhe sisenzo sokungcatsha ... Ekugqibeleni kwaye ngokwenene ... Kule mihla amadoda awasekho ukukopela ngaphezu kwabasetyhini , kuxhomekeke kwimigaqo nakwimfundo.