Ngenxa yezi zizathu, umyeni wakho akasakuthandi kwaye akakukhathalele

Lumka ke mfazi, kuba nguwe okhokela iphini endodeni yakho, kwaye unoxanduva, ukuba ubona iintsilelo okanye utshintsho kwindoda yakho kuwe, qiniseka ukuba isisombululo sisezandleni zakho. Akufihlakele nakuwuphi na umfazi ukuba iingcinezelo zangaphandle ezifunyanwa ngumyeni, njengengcinezelo yomsebenzi neembopheleleko zentsapho, ziyadinwa. Nawe:Usazihoya na wena njengakuqala?usamkhathalele?

Ukuba usanyanzelisa ukuba ungumkreqi kuwe, sithandwa sam, namhlanje eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukugcina umyeni wakho kude nawe.

Eyokuqala: Ekufikeni komntwana wokuqala, umyeni uvakalelwa kukuba uye wathwala uxanduva lwentsapho, yaye uya kuzincama ngenxa yayo, ngoko uya kumgada aze amlumkele.
Kwaye uhlala emsebenzini wakhe ukugcina imali, eyenza uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nentlalontle kuye kakhulu, kwaye apha uqala ukucinga ngomnye umfazi.

Okwesibini: Ingqalelo egqith’ emgceni yomfazi kumntwana nokungabi namdla kwendoda endodeni kulathisela amehlo akhe komnye umfazi de izibonakalise ukuba usenomtsalane yaye usemnqwenelweni.
Kwaye akakaphulukani namandla kunye nomsebenzi wakhe okwangoku.

Okwesithathu: Mhlawumbi oku kungenxa ye "Childian" njengoko ekhumbula imihla yokungathathi uxanduva, kunye nokuya ngokubhekiselele kubomi bothando obufunwayo, ngenxa yokuba uphendukela kwelinye ibhinqa.

Okwesine: Xa umyeni ejamelene neengxaki emsebenzini wakhe, okanye ephawula ukuba akaxatyiswa ngabalawuli ngokuphathelele ukuzonwabisa noxabiso, usenokuphethukela kwelinye ibhinqa.
Ukuzibonakalisa ukuba uyafunwa, kwaye uxatyisiwe ngabanye, oko kukuthi nabani na ongenguye umfazi wakhe okanye abaphathi bakhe emsebenzini.

Okwesihlanu: Ukuba umfazi uye akayihloniphi okanye akayixabisi indoda yakhe, ingakumbi phambi kwentsapho yakhe okanye intsapho yakhe, aze aqalise ukuyigculela okanye ukuyihlekisa ngehambo yayo;
Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emshukumisela ukuba akhangele omnye umfazi omhlonelayo.

Okwesithandathu: Xa umfazi engayimameli indoda yakhe xa ikhalazela kuye ngokudinwa ngumsebenzi okanye nayiphi na enye ingxaki, ubhenela komnye umntu.
Ukufezekisa injongo yakhe kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane umntu oya kumphulaphula.

Okwesixhenxe: Ukunqongophala komoya ofanelekileyo kumyeni endlwini ngandlela zonke, malunga nokumkhathalela nokumazisa ukuba ubalulekile endlwini kwaye uyamdinga, kwaye uyintsika usapho luphumle.

Okwesibhozo: Ukuhlutha umyeni wakhe uncumo lomfazi wakhe xa esamkela okanye esithi ndlela-ntle, nokusilela komfazi ukwenza umoya wokonwaba endlwini ngokungahoyi iimpahla zakhe.
Kwaye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwakhe ekukhetheni kunye nokuvakalisa uluvo lwayo ngobuhle bayo.

Kuyimfuneko ngomfazi ukuba azi ukuba umyeni wakhe uthwaxwa yimithwalo ethile yaye ukuba unomonde aze amncede adlule kwelo nqanaba, akuyi kubakho ukwahlukana okanye uqhawulo-mtshato.
Isizathu soku zezi zinto zikhankanywe ngasentla.

Mhlawumbi ezi ziimpawu zokwexeshana ebomini bomyeni kwaye zibangelwa ziingcinezelo zobomi, kodwa umonde, ukuthetha ngokuphandle nokunikela ingqalelo kuye kubuyisela amanzi kwindlela yawo.

Umfazi akafanele avumele le minqweno iqhubeke ngokuba nenkani, inkani, nokuzingisa ekuqhubekeni nokungavisisani nempatho engqwabalala yomyeni.
Kunoko, umele aqhubane naye ngothando nangokuqonda, ukuze avuyiswe kuvuyo lwayo, abelane naye ngezinto ezimkhathazayo neentsizi, aze ancome impumelelo ayifikelelayo, kungenjalo ayisayi kubugculela ubudoda bayo.
Okanye athobe izenzo nezenzo zakhe, njengoko esi sesona sizathu sinamandla nesiyingozi sokutshabalalisa ubomi bomtshato, yaye sisizathu sokuqala sokuba indoda ifune
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