Iyintoni imfihlelo yolonwabo emtshatweni?

Ubomi bomtshato obonwabileyo, kufuneka uhlangane emva kokuphazamiseka, kuyo yonke impilo edibeneyo kukho idini, nokuba lo mnikelo mkhulu okanye uncinci, ubomi obudibeneyo bufuna ukuqonda okuninzi komnye umntu, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba lukhulu kangakanani uthando. phakathi kwakho, intlonipho ihlala isisiseko solonwabo kubomi bomtshato, kodwa kuhlala kukho imithetho Njengayo nayiphi na enye inkampani, kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo kwaye iqondwe kakuhle,Emva koko ulonwabo nokwaneliseka kuya kuba ngumhlobo wakho

Usapho kunye nomcebisi wezemfundo, uSaeed Abdulghani, wathi imfihlelo yolonwabo kubomi bomtshato ilele eluthandweni, ukuqonda, ukuphathwa kakuhle kunye nentlonipho phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye ukuze oku kufezekiswe, oku kulandelayo kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo:

 

ungafumanisa njani ukuba umyeni wakho uyakuqhatha

• Hloniphani kwaye niyixabise imizamo yomnye nomnye.
• Ukuthembana phakathi kwamaqela amabini.
• Ukuqondana phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, nto leyo enciphisa iiyantlukwano ezininzi kwaye ikhulise ukusondelelana.
• Intlonipho noxabiso phakathi kwamaqela amabini xa exoxa kwiimeko zawo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye hayi ukuthetha amagama akhubekisayo njalo njalo.
• Unxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwabatshatileyo kunye nokungafihlisi amaxesha ngamaxesha, kunye nokwazi ukuba intliziyo yeqela ngalinye ithwele ntoni ukusuka kwimvakalelo engalunganga ukuze banyangwe kwangethuba, kwaye kwandise imvakalelo eyakhayo kubo.
• Ukucela uxolo ukuba omnye wabo wenze isiphoso kwilungelo lomnye, nto leyo eluphawu lwentlonipho noxabiso.
• Ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza komnye nomnye wabo; Okwanelisa iminqweno yomnye.

Ungamenza njani umfazi onwabe

Umcebisi uthi zininzi iindlela umfazi anokwenza ngayo umyeni wakhe onwabe, kwaye ajongane naye kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi, kubandakanya:

• Ukunika umyeni ukuzithemba
Oku kungokumnika inkululeko ethile yokuzonwabisa, kwaye aziqhelanise nezinto azithandayo azithandayo, ade abuye ethwele ulangazelelo nothando.

• Ukuxabisa nentlonipho

Umfazi ufanele ayihlonele indoda yakhe, angayijongeli phantsi okanye ayijongele phantsi, yaye abe nombulelo ngayo yonke into ayinikelayo, yaye xa encokola naye, kufuneka abe nengqiqo nengqiqo, nokuba akachananga yaye etyekele kuluvo lwakhe.

• Ukunika uthando
Ngokuwubonakalisa, okwandisa ukuzithemba kwendoda kunye nemvakalelo yokwaneliseka, kwaye ngoko umfazi wayo; Ngaphandle kokulungisa indlu kunye nokusebenza ukubonelela ngeendlela zokuthuthuzela kuyo, kunye nokugcina imali yayo, imbeko nozuko.

• Inkxaso yokuziphatha, inkuthazo nenkuthazo

Ukuba umfazi abe yinkxaso kunye nekhusi elixhasa umyeni ngamaxesha onke; ingakumbi ezinzima; Ukongeza kwinkxaso yemali, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kwaye kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi.

• Ukusebenzisana ngobubele
Ngokuba nombulelo nokutyebisa ubomi bomtshato, ukuba nobubele kuwo, nokusebenzisa amazwi anobubele nanobubele ngalo lonke ixesha; Ukongeza kokumkhumbuza ngento ayithandayo kwaye hayi ngenye indlela, kwimeko yokuhlangana nabahlobo okanye usapho okanye ngenye indlela.

• Yiba yintombi yakhe

Ubomi bomtshato bugcwele isithukuthezi kunye ne-monotony, kodwa ukuba umfazi uphatha umyeni wakhe njengomhlobo osondeleyo; Oku kuya kudala umoya omnandi wokuthetha, ukutyhila iimfihlo kwaye uzame imisebenzi emitsha eyahlukeneyo.

• Izijekulo ezilula
Okufana nokupha izipho kunye neentyatyambo, ukukhumbula iziganeko ezibalulekileyo kunye nokwabelana ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, njengokuthenga iimfuno zendlu, okanye ukubukela uchungechunge olutsha kunye, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukucwangcisa iholide apho isibini sifumana ukuphumla kunye nokuphumla.

Ekugqibeleni, ungalindeli ukuba impendulo yomyeni wakho ekutshintsheni ubudlelwane bakho naye iya kukhawuleza njengombane, khetha ixesha elithile kwaye uya kuwubona umahluko.Chaza ulonwabo ebomini bomtshato kuqala kwaye uzame ukukhangela izinto ezintle elinazo iqabane lakho, hayi ezimbi!!

 

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