Zeziphi iimfihlo ezingavezwa ngamadoda?

Amadoda amaninzi awayivezi imvakalelo yawo yangaphakathi emfazini, koko asuke afune ukuba ayazi ngaphandle kokumxelela.. yazi ke ukuba indoda ayivezi yonke into eyenzekayo entloko nasentliziyweni yayo.
Ngokutsho kohlolisiso olwenziwa eBrazil, ukusilela kwendoda ukuchaza iimvakalelo neengcinga zayo akuthethi kuthi ifuna ukugcina izinto eziyimfihlelo okanye ayilithembi iqabane layo. Ingongoma ikukuba indoda icinga ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba ithethe ngezinto ezithile ezisengqondweni yayo.
Wayibhukuqa inkolelo yakhe yokuba umfazi ufanele amazi. Kwaye ekubeni engakwazi ukuqikelela yonke into, amadoda kufuneka ahlukane nalo mqathango, kwaye avule amabele awo kubafazi bawo.
Iimfihlo ezisixhenxe amadoda angafuni ukuzixela

Okokuqala - naye ukhala njengomfazi
Uphando luye lwaqinisekisa ukuba indoda ayivumi ukuthetha ngalo mbandela phambi kwebhinqa, kodwa ifuna ukuba yazi ukuba nayo ikhe yakhala kakhulu ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe. Ukuba ibhinqa likholelwa ukuba ukukhala kwendoda kubonisa ubuthathaka, ngoko uyiphutha, kuba indoda enokuyenza
Ukukhala phambi kwakhe kubonisa amandla amakhulu, kwaye oku kukhala akubangelwa bubuthathaka kubuntu.
Ukukwazi kwendoda ukukhala phambi komfazi kuthetha ukuba nayo ingumntu njengaye.

Okwesibini - ukuba wayebuhlungu ngokweemvakalelo ngaphambili
Nayo indoda ayikuthandi ukuveza amanxeba ayo ngokweemvakalelo, kodwa ifuna ibhinqa lazi ukuba nayo isenokuba iye yachanabeka kwiimeko ezibuhlungu ngokweemvakalelo.

Indoda obunayo inokuba yathanda umfazi phambi kwakho; Kodwa waba buhlungu emoyeni, ngenxa yokuba wala okanye akazange ayifumane into awayeyifuna kuye. Oku ayisosiphene, kwaye kufuneka uyazi ukuba ngaphandle kokuyityhila kwakhe.

Okwesithathu - Naye ufuna ukuba umamele
Uninzi lwamadoda aluvuleleki ncam kubantu basetyhini, okt abathethi kakhulu ngeemvakalelo zabo. Kodwa ngaphakathi, banqwenela ukuba lo mfazi amphulaphule ngendlela afuna ukuba amphulaphule ngayo. Ukuba umfazi uthe wafumanisa ukuba iqabane lakhe liwuvule umlomo walo wokutyhila izinto kuye, makaliphulaphule, kuba indoda ayisoloko ifuna ukuhoywa, kunoko icinga ukuba kuluxanduva lwakhe ukuyiphulaphula njengoko isitsho. umyeni.

Okwesine, ufuna wenze into emenza azive elungile.
Xa indoda igqiba ekubeni yenze okuthile ngenxa yentsapho, ifuna ukuba ibhinqa lime ngakwicala layo, ize iyincede ifikelele oko kuya kwenza amacebo ayo aphumelele yaye akholiswe yiyo. Kodwa usoloko esala ukucela uncedo kweli bhinqa.

Okwesihlanu, ufuna wazi ukuba ucinga ukuba uphambene xa uthandana naye.
Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba umfazi wakhe uyamthanda. Oku kubangelwa yinto yokuba amadoda amaninzi awafane abonise uthando lwawo kubafazi babo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ufuna ukuba azive ukuba uziva uthando lwakhe ngaphandle kokulubonakalisa.

Okwesithandathu, ufuna ukuziva ukuba nguye kuphela indoda yakho
Indoda ithanda ukuziva ukuba yiyo yodwa indoda ebethelwa yintliziyo yakho; Kodwa akakubuzi, kwangaxeshanye ufuna ukwazi ukuba umgqala ngolo hlobo, engakhange akubuze.

Ihlelwe ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed