Yintoni ekwenza umcaphukele umntu omthandayo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo okwenzekayo kukuba siqale sithande inkampani yomntu kwaye siqale ukuthanda izinto ezincinci ezifana nokuhleka amahlaya akho, babambe isandla sakho ngelixa uhamba esidlangalaleni, bakwenza uzive ukhululekile kuwe, bayakuxhasa kuyo yonke imizamo, njl. yaye siyabona ukuba olu “luthando” kuba lunotyekelo lomntu, ingakumbi kubantu besini esahlukileyo.

Ukuba abanye abafana kunye namantombazana baqala ukuchitha ixesha kunye njengomhlobo kuyanelisa omnye komnye kwaye iba yinkqubo yokuchitha ixesha kunye. Xa singadibani nalo mntu, siziva ngathi kukho into engekhoyo kwishedyuli yakhe. Emva koku, omnye umntu uya kucebisa kwaye asamkele isindululo kwaye ubudlelwane buqale.

Xa singena kubudlelwane, siqala ukugcina ukulindela omnye komnye, ukufowuna kunye nokuncokola ebusuku, ukumaka omnye nomnye kwimifanekiso kwimidiya yoluntu, ukuphawula rhoqo, njl njl.

Inxalenye yentiyo iqala xa inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ilindele okuthile komnye yaye xa umdla wabo ungahambelani, baqalisa ukuthiyana. Oku kulindelekileyo kunye nokuphoxeka kuhlala kuphuma kwaye senza umfanekiso wengqondo yomntu lowo mntu akasoloko evumelana nam.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abafana bajonge amagwegwe kwaye bacinge ukuba bangena kubudlelwane ukuba baya kufumana ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokuba yintoni na, kwaye ekupheleni koko bayayilimaza intombazana ngokweemvakalelo.

Ngokufanayo namantombazana, baya kuba nobudlelwane nabantu abahlukeneyo ngexesha elinye. Abafana baqhubeka bechitha imali kwaye bemthengela izipho kwaye intombazana iqhubeka nokusebenzisa imali yabafana ekuthengeni kunye nobunewunewu obahlukeneyo njengokutya kwiivenkile zokutyela ezintlanu njl.njl.

Konke oku kukhokelela kwintiyo ngomfana okanye intombazana eyayithandana ngokwenene nomnye umntu.