Sithini isisombululo kunye neqabane eligwenxa?

Bubuphi ubungqina obubonisa ukuba iqabane lakho likhohlakele kwaye alingongqondongqondo? 

 1- Akaniki zipho ngaphandle kwamathuba kwaye akanako ukusinika konke

2- Uyakuphepha ukukhonza nokunceda abanye, nakwizinto ezingezizo izinto eziphathekayo

3- Akakonwabeli ukutya xa ezokubhatala

I-4-Izikhalazo ezininzi malunga nokubandezeleka kunye namaxabiso aphezulu, nokuba amazwi akhe ayinyaniso, kodwa izikhalazo ezininzi ziluphawu lokunganyaniseki.

5- Ukuba inqanaba lakhe lomvuzo lilungile, jonga ukuba uchitha impilo yakhe okanye utyekele ekunciphiseni.

6- Ucebisa kuye nakwabanye ukuba iipikiniki kunye nohambo alubheki kuye kwaye akazithandi iindawo ezitofotofo.

I-7- Unqabile ekuboniseni iimvakalelo zakhe kunye nesilogeni sakhe esiqhubekayo kukuba unobuthakathaka ekukwazini ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe.

Zeziphi iindlela zokujongana nomntu okhohlakeleyo? 

I-1- Ukungasebenzisi amagama anjengathi "i-stingy", "inyameko" kunye namanye amalungiselelo abonisa kakubi umntu kwaye uwasebenzise njengesizathu sokuziphatha kwakhe ngokuziphatha kakubi, njengoko kunokubangela ukuba enze umcimbi ube mbi ngakumbi.

2- Kufuneka umenze azive ekhuselekile kude nemali, kwaye aqinise eminye imithombo yokuzithemba kwaye angoyiki ikamva kunye nokubaluleka kokunandipha okwangoku.

3- Thetha naye malunga nembono yakho ngemali kwaye idalwe ukuba yonwabe kwaye ungadinwa yiyo.

4- Thatha inyathelo lokuqala lokupha, mhlawumbi oko kuvuselela umoya wokupha

5- Bonisa umdla omkhulu kunye nolonwabo ukuba ukunika into ethile

I-6- Ukuba le mpawu izuzwe kumzali omnye wabazali bakhe, umcimbi unzima kakhulu, kodwa ezininzi iinzame ziya kusebenza.

7- Hambani kunye niye emarikeni, njengoko enokukhuthazwa ukuba athenge, nidumise isidima sakhe, njengoko oku kuvuselela uthando lokuthenga.