Zeziphi iimpawu zokuba uzixakekisa ebantwini

Zeziphi iimpawu zokuba uzixakekisa ebantwini

Kuhle ukuba umntu anikele ingqalelo yakhe nomgudu wakhe ekukhonzeni amalungu asekuhlaleni nasekunikeleni inyameko nentsebenziswano nabanye, nto leyo ephakathi kwezona mpawu zintle zobuntu. Kodwa iingcali zibonisa ukuba kukho umgca omhle phakathi kokupha nokukholisa abanye nokubonisa iimfuno neminqweno yabanye ngaphezu kweemfuneko zobuqu, zicacisa ukuba ukupha ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba yimbonakaliso ecacileyo yemeko yokungazithembi, ngokutsho kwengxelo eyapapashwa nguHack Spirit.

Iimpawu ezilumkisayo

1. Ukuthi ewe rhoqo

Ukuhlala uvuma zonke izicelo zabanye kunye nokukhathalela iimfuno ezininzi kunokugqibela uziva udiniwe okanye unoxinzelelo.

2. Iintloni zokuthi hayi

Kakade ke, ukwala isicelo somntu bekungayi kuba lula kwiimeko ezithile. Kodwa imvume ngaphandle kwemfuneko ebophelelayo iya kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kubandakanyeka kuzo zonke iintlobo zezibophelelo ezingathandekiyo umntu angafuni ngokwenene ukuzenza. Umntu unokuwela lula ezandleni zabo baziyo ukuba abanakuthi hayi.

3. Ukutsala “abaxhaphazi nabaxhaphazi”

Kufana nokuba umntu ofanayo utsala aba bantu, abasebenzisa kakubi ububele bakhe, basebenzise olu phawu njengobuthathaka kwaye babuze ngamabomu kakhulu, benza ukuba ubudlelwane nabo bunikezelwe malunga neengxaki zabo, iimfuno kunye neminqweno.

4. Ukuziva unomsindo

Xa umntu esipha aze asebenzisane nabanye, ufanele azive anelisekile. Ukuba uvakalelo lutshintshela kwimeko yokucaphuka, oko kubonisa ukuba omnye unezinto ezininzi kunemida esengqiqweni nefanelekileyo. Ingqumbo luphawu lokuba kukho ukungalingani phakathi kokupha nokuthatha.

5. Kulumkele ukungquzulana

Ukunikezela kunye nokuvuma ukuxhaphaza omnye ngenxa yomnqweno wokuphepha iingxabano kunye neengxabano, kubangela ukucaphukisa emntwini ngamaxesha onke. Ukukhetha ukuthomalalisa iinqobo ezisemgangathweni, izinto eziphambili, kunye neemfuno kunokuba uphikisane, kunokukwenza kube nzima ukuba nguwe ngokwenene.

6. Imvakalelo yobuxoki yothando noxabiso

Mhlawumbi umntu ukholelwa ukuba ukuze athandwe, anqwenelwe kwaye amkelwe, kufuneka enze oko abanye abantu bafuna kwaye balindele kuye. Woyika ukuba ukungasizalisekisi nasiphi na isicelo kusenokumenza angathandwa.

7. Phumelela uthando lomntu wonke

Bambi bafuna ukuqinisa umba “wokuvisisana” ngokuzama ukukholisa bonke abantu ngalo lonke ixesha, nokuvakalisa ukuzamkeleka kwezinto bona ngokwabo abangaqinisekanga ngazo ukuze bazame ukuhlalisana nabanye.

8. Ukutyeshela iimfuno zobuqu

Kulungile ukuba umntu abeke isiqu sakhe kunye neemfuno zakhe kuqala. Kodwa kunokuba lucelomngeni olukhulu kwabo bafuna ukukholisa wonke umntu. Boyika ukubonwa njengabazingcayo ukuba benjenjalo.

Imithetho esengqiqweni kunye nemida

La manyathelo alandelayo anokuthathwa ukuze ufunde indlela yokumisela imida efanelekileyo ukuze kuthintelwe abanye ekuthabatheni ngokungafanelekanga isisa sakho, ububele nokupha kwakho:

1. Zazi ngokwakho

Ukuzazi kubalulekile xa umntu efuna ukwenza utshintsho. Ukuba akayiboni inyaniso, akanakucombulula iingxaki ngendlela esengqiqweni. Ukuzazi malunga nokulahla umnqweno wokuzithoba kubaxhaphazi ngokupheleleyo, kuya kunceda ukukhanyisa iingxaki zobuqu kunye nokujongana nazo.

2. Khulisa ukuzithemba

Oyena ndoqo wotyekelo lokukholisa wonke umntu kukungazithembi. Iimfuno kunye neemfuno zabanye zibekwe kwindawo ephezulu kuneemfuno kunye neemfuno zomntu kuba ekugqibeleni abaziva bekufanele ukubeka iimfuno zabo kuqala.

3. Ukubeka phambili

Abantu abaninzi-abakholisa abantu bachitha ixesha elininzi befuna ukwanelisa iimfuno zabanye kangangokuba ekuhambeni kwexesha baye bangaqinisekanga ngeyona nto ibalulekileyo kubo. Ukubeka izinto ezibalulekileyo kwindawo yokuqala kunceda ubani akhethe indlela aza kuchitha ngayo ixesha namandla akhe, ngokweemfuno zakhe nezinto ezibalulekileyo kuye.

4. Yiba nomonde ekuvakaliseni imvume

Enye yeengxaki eziluncedo abajamelene nazo abaninzi abangenakusuka nje bacele uxolo baze bathi hayi kwabanye kukuba babophelelekile ukuba banyamekele iintswelo ebebengafuni ukuzenza. Ke ngoko, ukulinda ukubonisa imvume kunokunika ixesha elingakumbi lokucinga malunga nokuba kufanelekile ukwenza into okanye hayi, ngoko ke amabinzana afana nala:

• Ndivumele ndibuyele kuwe malunga noku
• Ndiza kuyiqwalasela ngokunzulu
• Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndingayenza na, kodwa ndiza kukwazisa ukuba ndiyakwazi
• Kufuneka ndijonge izinto ezimbalwa phambi kokuba ndithembise esi sibophelelo

5. Musa ukuyibaxa

Ukhetho akufunekanga lubaxiweyo, kwaye akukho mfuneko yezizathu zokwenza into ongafuni ukuyenza. Ukucacisa kakhulu kunokusingela phantsi izigqibo. Kambe ke, ubani akafanele acele uxolo ngenxa yokuba akukho mfuneko yokuba acele uxolo ngento engahambelaniyo nezinto ubani azibeka kwindawo yokuqala neminqweno yakhe.

6. Khumbula ucwangciso lwakho lobuqu

Ukuba umntu uyazikhumbula yaye uyazazi iiyure, uyazifuna ukuze zanelise iintswelo neminqweno yakhe yobuqu. Ngokomzekelo, xa uphendula ifowuni, umhlobo ofowunela kamnandi unokuxelelwa ukuba unemizuzu eli-15 kuphela yokuthetha, ekhusela ixesha yaye akachithi ngamathuba okugqiba imisebenzi yabucala okanye onwabele ixesha likabani njengoko ethanda.

7. Intlonipho elinganayo

Xa umntu ephendula umbuzo othi: “Uqhubana njani nabanye?” Emva koko unokubeka ulindelo kwaye abeke ulawulo lokufumana inqanaba elifanayo lentlonipho, ukhathalelo kunye nexesha elivela kwabanye.

8. Ukuyeka ubudlelwane obutshabalalisayo

Ukuthobela imimiselo kunye nemithetho emitsha kunokukhokelela kwimvakalelo yokucaphuka phakathi kwabahlobo abathile, abamelwane okanye oogxa. Inguqulelo echanekileyo yale meko kukuba ubani ufanele ayamkele into yokuba ubuhlobo obuthile, unxulumano, okanye unxulumano luya kuqalisa ukuphela ngenxa yokuba umntu obubele bakhe nokupha ababexhaphake kuye akasekho.

Uqikelelo lukaMaguy Farah lwehoroscope yonyaka ka-2023