Ngubani umama, umahluko una 23 years

Umfundisi-ntsapho omhle waseMelika uvuselele umdla kunye nomdla woovulindlela beendawo zonxibelelwano yentlalo Ngenxa yokungakwazi kwabo ukwahlula phakathi kwakhe nentombi yakhe entle, nangona umahluko weminyaka phakathi kwabo uneminyaka engama-23.

UJolene Diaz, oneminyaka engama-43, unomzimba ogobileyo kunye neempawu zobuso ezithandekayo, okwenza kube nzima ukukholelwa ukuba ungumama wentombazana entle eneminyaka eyi-19 ubudala.

UJolene, ohlala eCalifornia, uthi usebudlelwaneni obusondeleyo nentombi yakhe, uMelanie Parks, kwaye wabelane ngezinto ezininzi zezemidlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa ngaphambi kokuba bapapashe ezinye zazo kwiiakhawunti zabo kwimidiya yoluntu.

UJoleen uthe imfihlo yokugcina ubutsha bakhe kunye nobuhle kukulandela indlela yokuphila enempilo, ngokutya okufanayo, kunye nokuphepha ukusela utywala ngaphandle kokungaqhelekanga, ngaphezu kokunyamezela kwimidlalo.

Inyaniso ngomfanekiso kayise omhle kunye nentombi yakhe

Iphephandaba elithi “The Sun” lacaphula uJoleen esithi ululondoloza kakhulu ulusu lwakhe ngokuqinisekisa ukuba usebenzisa amayeza okuzikhusela elangeni aze amtyise izithambiso ezineevithamini nezinto zendalo eziluncedo.

Utitshala onomtsalane ugxininise imfuneko yokugcina impilo yengqondo ukonwabela ulutsha oluhlala luhleli ngokuhlala kude neemvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezingalunganga.

Waza wahlabela mgama esithi, “Ndiphila ubomi obulula yaye ndanelisekile zizinto endinazo,” echaza ukuba nangona enenkangeleko encinane, yena nentombi yakhe bayakuphepha ukuya kwimijuxuzo yasebusuku okanye ukuya kumatheko.

Ngokuphathelele intombi yakhe, wathi, "Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, ndandicinga ukuba mna nomama singoodade ababini."

Enyanisweni, amagqabantshintshi ngeefoto neevidiyo zikaJoleen noManny azikho ngaphandle kobulumko, ukuba umntu wabhala: “Ungoyena mama umhle ehlabathini,” ngoxa omnye wabuza loo nyaniso, esithi: “Akunakwenzeka ukuba ube ngumama wakhe,” ngoxa omnye ebuza lo mbuzo. omnye wabo wabhala: “Ngaba nguwe okanye ngokwenene? ​​“.

Ekugqibeleni, kulabo abangenakukwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwabo, umama uJolene nguye osekhohlo kwimifanekiso emibini.