Ngaba ukhetha ukuthanda ingqondo okanye ukuthanda intliziyo?

Umntu uziva ekhuselekile xa ecinga ukuba ukwimeko yothando olupheleleyo nolwenyani oluqhubekayo ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye alupheli, kodwa ukuqonda olu thando kusenokuba nzima.Ebudeni bokufuna kwethu uthando olupheleleyo oluqinisekisa ukuzinza kwengqondo ebomini, bakhe bathi uthando lwengqondo lolona luphumeleleyo lwakhiwe ekuqondeni, ekuqiqeni nasekufundeni iimpawu zomntu ngamnye komnye nobungakanani bokuhambelana kwabo nomnye.Siphinde sithi uthando lwentliziyo. yeyona nto intle, njengoko isithatha isise kwindawo yokungazi ngezenzo zethu ukuya kwindawo ezenzekelayo nothando komnye, kude nokuzingca nokude kwiimfuneko.

Yintoni umahluko phakathi kokuthanda ingqondo kunye nothando lwentliziyo? 

Xa uthanda ngengqondo yakho

Uzaliswa luthando lokuba nezinto kunye nokulawula, kwaye ukunamathela kunye nokufuthanisela kuyanda ngokuhamba kweentsuku. kwiqela elilawulayo, ukuze ubomi buqhubeke buphila kunye okanye phantsi kwegama.Ukuba akunjalo, ngoko anindithandi. 

Olu thando lwande kakhulu kuluntu lwethu kwaye lubangelwa yingcamango ekhoyo yokuba ukuhlalisana sisiseko somtshato kwaye zonke ezinye iimvakalelo ziya kunyamalala kamva.

Xa uthanda ngentliziyo yakho

Ikhula njengesibhakabhaka kunye nalowo umthandayo kwaye uziva uphefumla kunye nenkululeko.Le mvakalelo ayipheli xa iyinyani.Kunokuba, olu vuyo luhlala ubomi bonke.Xa uthanda ngokusuka entliziyweni, awuyi kuyazi ingqiqo okanye ubulumko. Kolu thando, akukho attachment, akukho control, okanye ukuzicingela.Ubona ubuhle ngamehlo nothando, ngentliziyo ubona iziphene uzithande.Njengokuba injalo kwaye ingalwi ukutshintsha nantoni na kwenye, xa ezi iimvakalelo ziyinyani kwaye zinyanisekile, azibuni, kodwa kunoko ziguqula kuzo zonke iifom zazo zibe iimvakalelo eziphakamileyo eziphakamisa emntwini yonke into eyakhayo.