Ngaba uthando lunokujika lube likhoboka lazo..yintoni ikhoboka lomntu.. kwaye singakuphepha njani ukubamba?

Ngokuqhelekileyo igama elithi umlutha linxulumene nokuqhelana neziyobisi okanye utywala okanye ezinye izinto ezifana neelekese okanye itshokolethi ... Kodwa usenokuba likhoboka lomntu ungazi. umdla wakho uzithuthuzele kuba usoyika ukuphulukana naye, ukuba ukhe wajongwa ngumntu ebomini bakho, ngokungathi uhlala uxhomekeke kumthambo okubethayo, ubangele ukuba uphile, kwaye ukuba uyawushiya ngathi unqumle lo mthambo. , emva koko kufuneka ujongane nengxaki ukuze uzikhusele.

Yintoni ebangela umlutha ebantwini:

Kumaxesha amaninzi umntu uba likhoboka lomntu othanda abantu, kodwa umntu ngamnye uxhomekeke exesheni eyedwa, kwaye ukuba uthe wahlukana naye, uya kufuna omnye umntu olikhoboka lakhe kwangaloo mandla, ngenxa yengqondo. intlungu kunye nokulahlekelwa kwesisa kunye novakalelo lokhuseleko ebuntwaneni, oku kubangela ukungabikho kokuzithemba Kumntu, kwanele ukuba ingqalelo elula kumntu osweleyo ububele ebuntwaneni bukhoboka kuwe kwaye akwenze yonke into kuwe. ubomi bakhe.
Siphawula le meko, mhlawumbi kunye nomhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho, kodwa sihlala siyifumana kubudlelwane phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda, ngakumbi kumazwe ethu ama-Arabhu, apho umfazi uvakalelwa kukuba akanamandla kwaye akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na ngaphandle indoda kwaye ixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kuye, nto leyo eyenza imvakalelo yokoyika kunye Loss Ukuba le ndoda washiya ubomi bakhe, ungumthombo wobomi bakhe ngokupheleleyo.
Umntu ozingcayo ufuna ukulenza buthathaka elinye iqela aze amenze asoloko emdinga yaye usoloko ezenza ongoyena unamandla ukuze akwazi ukumlawula, ngoxa umntu onesimo sengqondo esihle efuna ukuba liqabane lakhe elinamandla yaye unokuxhomekeka kuye ngokwakhe ngoxa emi ngakuye ukuze amlawule. yenza lula imithwalo yakhe.

Ujongana njani nale ngxaki:

Zama ukuzinyamekela ngokomoya, ngokwenyama, nempilo ngenxa yakho, kungekuphela nje kuba ufuna ukumkholisa.
Zithande, uyithande, kwaye uyinike ilungelo lokuthandwa ngabanye.
Yenza ubudlelwane bakho buphindaphinde kwaye ungabunqumli, oko kuthetha ukuba ndinomhlobo owaneleyo welizwe okanye ndinomfazi okanye umyeni.Kukho usapho, abamelwane, umsebenzi, kunye nezinto zokuzonwabisa zobudlelwane boluntu ezigcina ibhalansi yakho. ubuntu, ukuzithemba kunye nokuqola ekusebenzelaneni.
Ungakujongeli phantsi ukuziphatha kakubi kuwe njengoluhlobo lokuzithethelela ngenxa yothando lwakho kuye.Ukuba awuzihloniphi, akukho mntu uya kukuhlonipha, kwanabo baxhomekeke kuwe.Akukho mntu unelungelo lokuphazamisa ubomi bakho. Kufuneka ube wedwa ngenene.”

Musa ukoyika ukuphulukana nayo, kuba ukoyika ukuphulukana nento kubangela ilahleko yayo eqinisekileyo.

Musa ukuziqinisekisa ukuba omnye akanakuphila ngaphandle kwakho, ngoko ke ukulungele ukuncama ulonwabo lwakho kunye nentuthuzelo kuye.

Wonke umntu ebomini bakho uyinxalenye yabo, hayi ubomi bakho bonke.Ukuba omnye wenu uhamba, uya kuphoswa yinxalenye yobomi bakho obupheleleyo, hayi yonke into onayo.

Khumbula ukuba iingoma, imifanekiso eshukumayo kunye nochungechunge luthetha ngothando olupheleleyo olungekho ngokwenene.

Nanini na xa uziva ubuthathaka phambi kwakhe nabani na, phinda elulwimini lwakho, “Owu Thixo, musa ukuyincamathela intliziyo yam ngaphandle kwakho.”

hlela ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed