Ngaba uthando luyakubulala .. izifundo zamva nje: ukuphoxeka ngokweemvakalelo kubangela ukufa

Xa usithi kumntu, Ubomi bam, okanye ukwahlukana kwakho kuyandibulala, ngaba kukho nasiphi na isiseko senyaniso kwezi nkcazo, kwaye ukwahlukana kuyabulala ngokwenene, inyaniso yebo, ukuphoxeka ngokweemvakalelo kubangela ukufa, njani, kutheni, masiqhubeke kunye namhlanje.

Imibuzo emininzi iphakama, apho iyeza lixuba ibhayoloji nangokwengqondo.
Kodwa into eqinisekileyo, ngokutsho kwezazinzulu, kukuba “intliziyo ebuhlungu” asilobinzana nje elichaza “iimvakalelo ezibaxiweyo.” Kunoko, yimeko engokwasemzimbeni echaphazela impilo yomzimba, ngaloo ndlela isenokuba sisisongelo kubomi. .
Izazinzulu ziye zachaza ezo meko zingokweemvakalelo ezibangelwa kukulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, nokuba kungenxa yokwahlukana okanye ukufa, njengesifo sentliziyo esaphukileyo, esafunyanwa okokuqala ngabaphandi baseJapan ngowe-1991.

Le meko ibangela intlungu ekhohlo kwithambo lesifuba, ngenxa yokuphazamiseka okwethutyana okanye ukucotha kwenkqubo yokumpompa igazi ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwentliziyo, ngenxa yamaza oxinzelelo lweehomoni ezifihliweyo ekuphenduleni. iindaba ezibuhlungu ngokweemvakalelo kunye neziganeko, ngokutsho kweMayo Clinic.

Kulo mongo, kukhankanywa ukuba okukhona umntu “oxhwalekileyo ngokweemvakalelo” esiba buthathaka ngokwezonyango, nto leyo ethetha ukuba unezinye iingxaki zonyango, kokukhona iziphumo zomothuko ziya kuba nzulu ngakumbi, yaye ngenxa yoko “ukungaphumeleli kwentliziyo” kwiimeko ezinjalo kunokukhokelela ekubeni abe buthathaka. kwisifo sentliziyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela ukufa.

Hlala ukhathalela abo bakuthandayo, ukuphoxeka ngokweemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha kuyabulala.