Iimpawu ezisixhenxe ezibonisa ukuba uyakuthanda

Ukunyaniseka kwasekuqaleni, ukungaxoki, ukuphikisa, okanye ukujikeleza:
Ukukholelwa ukuma kwakhe, izenzo, amazwi namazwi, kumadoda amaninzi athetha ngothando alubeke ezifubeni zawo nokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zawo ngamabhinqa.

Uthetha ngawe xa ungekho kwaye uzama ukukukhankanya kwizihloko ezahlukeneyo:
Kuninzi ukuthetha ngomntu amthandayo, kuba ukuba umntu uthanda into ngaphezu kokuyikhankanya, kwaye ukuthetha kakhulu kubhekisela kwigama lakhe, nokuthetha ngobuntu bakhe, izinto anomdla kuzo, nayo nantoni na enxulumene naye.

Amehlo akhe ayakhazimla ukukubona:
Amehlo anokukhanya kunye nokucwebezela okwahlula abathandi kwabanye.Ngokuqaphela iimfihlo zamehlo, olu phawu lujongwa njengenye yeempawu zabathandi, ngoko ke siyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi komthandi wenene kunye nomthandi womgunyathi.

imvakalelo yangaphakathi:
Uthando lunamandla kunye ne-aura yeemvakalelo ezijikeleze umnini walo, kwaye kuphela ibhinqa onobudlelwane bothando kunye nokusondelana nendoda, njengomfazi wayo, inokwahlula la mandla.

Uhlala ebuza ngawe kwaye uhlala ethetha nawe:
Umntu oluthando olumele lwahlulwa, enoba lolokwenene okanye akunjalo, sinokuluhlolisisa ngendlela ekuziphatha ngayo nangeemvakalelo zayo. athambileyo ngamagama, kwaye nguye obuza ngemeko yesithandwa sakhe kakhulu, kwaye nguye omkhumbulayo xa engekho kwaye uyazi ukuba atshintshe iimeko zakhe ukusuka kwinkangeleko yakhe kunye nendlela athetha ngayo.

Ukhumbula iziganeko ezikhethekileyo kuwe, ezifana nomhla wakho wokuzalwa kunye nomhla wentlanganiso yakho yokuqala:
Ukwazi iziganeko nezinto ezithandwa ngumfazi kungundoqo wolwazi lwendoda ngesithandwa sakhe.Akukho ngqiqweni ukuthi ngendoda imthanda ngokwenene umfazi wayo, ngokomzekelo, yaye engayazi injongo yayo okanye umbala awuthandayo. zi, okanye mhlawumbi abanye babo abazazi iziganeko zakhe ezikhethekileyo, ezifana nosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa.

Uzimisele ngobudlelwane bakhe nawe kwaye ujonge ukuzibandakanya nawe ngokusesikweni:
Uthando lwendoda lwaziwa ngokuthanda kwakhe umntu obhinqileyo, nto leyo ekumele ukuba ibe luthando olunyanisekileyo nolusemthethweni ngokunjalo. Ngenxa yokuba uthando olungasekelwanga kulwalamano olusemthethweni luthando oluphosakeleyo yaye lumiselwe ukunyamalala kwiimeko ezininzi, yaye ukuze indoda ilondoloze igama elihle lomfazi nembono yabantu ngaye, akukho ngqiqweni ngendoda ukuba ibange uthando lomfazi. omkhubekisayo ngezimo zakhe ngakuye okanye ngokubeka ubudlelwane babo kwindawo Ingxabano kunye namazwi abanye.