Imikhwa emihle ikwenza ube ngumntu othandeka .. Uyifumana njani?

Zininzi iintetha malunga nokuba nethemba kunye nendlela yokubutshintsha ubomi bubengcono.Sonke sinobuchule ekuthetheni ngaloo nto, kodwa singayifumana njani le mikhwa ukuze ibe yindalo yethu kwaye ngaphandle kweendleko okanye ukuveliswa?

1- Inyathelo lokuqala: Yiba nomdla kuko konke okulungileyo ngaphandle kokulindela imbuyekezo

2- Ukumisela injongo: Umntu ongenanjongo uhlala efile, nokuba incinci kangakanani na injongo yakho, yisebenzele

3- Ukwamkela abanye Ukuze abanye bakwamkele, kufuneka uqale ubamkele

4- Ukufumana: Jonga kwaye ufunde kwiimpawu ezintle kunye nokuziphatha kwabanye

5- Ulandelelwano lwezinto eziphambili: Kufuneka ubeke phambili, kusoloko kukho izinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi

6- Ziphathe kakuhle : Kufuneka uthathe ikhefu elifutshane kuyo yonke into oyenzayo

7- Ukuthanda ukulunga: Uthando lwabanye lwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi. Yonwabela impumelelo yabo

8- Injongo entle:  Ukusebenzisana nabantu ngokholo oluhle kunye nokuphepha ukulindela okubi kakhulu kubo ngenjongo yokuba nengqondo

9- Ukuzixakekisa ngesiqu sakho: Sukuzikhathaza ngobomi babanye abantu, ukuzixakekisa ngokuziphuhlisa kusondeza abantu kuwe.

10- Intlonipho enyanisekileyo: Unganqikazi ukuthetha ilizwi elihle nakubani na, liya kukubonisa ngolonwabo olukhulu

Eminye imixholo:

Ubugcisa bokuziphatha kunye nokusebenzisana nabantu

Uhlangabezana njani neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zabantu ngobukrelekrele

Uzichaphazela njani iingqondo zabantu?