Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zokuthiya umntu

Intiyo yenye yeentlobo zeemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezoyisa ingqondo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ibonakala ngendlela yezenzo ezikrwada kunye namagama, kwaye inokuba neemvakalelo eziphezulu ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha le mvakalelo ayihambisani nasiphi na isenzo, kodwa kunokuba ihlale. ungcwatywe ngaphakathi emntwini, kodwa uyabonakala. Izazinzulu ziye zafumanisa ukuba kukho iindawo ebuchotsheni ezibangela ezi mvakalelo, kwaye ziqala ukuvela ngaphambi kokuba zivele ngendlela yezenzo kunye nezenzo, kwaye la maziko asengqondweni asebenza ngokwenqanaba lentiyo.

Ngokwengqondo, sisiphumo sokuziphatha okunxulumene neemvakalelo zethu zangaphakathi ngokubhekiselele komnye umntu ngenxa yeemvakalelo esizifihlayo ezinceda ukuvelisa inzondo, kwaye enye yale mvakalelo luloyiko, kwaye inzondo inokudityaniswa nomona, njengokumthiya ophumeleleyo kwizifundo zakhe kunye nophumeleleyo kubudlelwane bakhe bentlalontle okanye abo banelungelo.

Zeziphi iimpawu eziphambili ezibonisa ukuba kukho umntu othiyileyo?

1- Ukungazamkeli izimvo zakho: Ukuba ubukwenye yeeseshoni, qaphela ubungakanani obuvumayo kwaye uvumelane nezimvo zakho, ukuba ihlala igatywa kunye nenkcaso ngaphandle kokugwetyelwa kwaye rhoqo, ngoko oku kuphawu lweemvakalelo zokuzonda kuwe, njengoko uzama. ukoyisa uluvo lwakho ngokuchasa ngaphandle kwesizathu esibambekayo.

 2- Umboniso: Abantu abaninzi babelana ngeemvakalelo zabo zomntu nabahlobo babo abasondeleyo okanye usapho, ke ngoko ukujonga kwakho indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kuya kukunika ubungqina obuqinisekileyo beemvakalelo zabo, njengokuqaphela indawo ephambi kwakho ngaphandle kolwazi lwakho, ukuze bakwazi yona, njengoko idlulisela kubo umfanekiso wakho ngokwendlela abaziva ngayo.

3- Iintshukumo: Qaphela indlela aziphatha ngayo nawe, indlela yokuziphatha inika impembelelo ecacileyo kuwe malunga neemvakalelo zabantu ngakuwe, umzekelo, ukungayihoyi impendulo kuwe okanye ukuphazamisa kakhulu ekuthetheni, obu bubungqina benzondo.Ngexesha lencoko yababini. waqwalasela ubungqina bentiyo.

 4- Ukutolika ngendlela engeyiyo into oyithethayo: Nantoni na oyithethayo kunye nantoni na oyithethayo iya kuhlala inetoliko engalunganga, kwaye ithwale amagama ngaphezu kokuba kufanele kwaye kwicala elichasene nenjongo yakho.

 5- Ngamanye amaxesha ukuziphatha kuba nobutshaba ngaphandle kwesihlandlo: Le meko ayifuni ngcaciso, njengoko umthiyile esitsho ngokucacileyo kuwe ukuba ukuthiyile. Okanye wenze ngendlela ecacileyo, etyhilwa yintshukumo yobuso, okanye amagama.

 6- Andiziva ukhululekile xa unawe: Kwaye esi senzo sichanekile ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ke kufuneka ujonge ukusabela ngelixa ulapho, njengoko umthiyile ebonisa iimpawu zokungakhululeki ngokucacileyo okanye enze izizathu zokuphepha ukuba kule ndawo ukuyo.

7-Yenza izizathu: Usenokuvakalisa kakhulu phambi kwabantu ukuba nguwe lo uqalise intiyo okanye umtshintshile indlela owawumphethe ngayo kwaye akayazi ukuba umthiyile ntoni na.Sisenzo sokuthethelela. yena ngokwakhe Nakwabanye nakuwe malunga nesizathu sokukuthiya kwakhe, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba enze nasiphi na isenzo kuye, kuyacaca kuwe ukuba yena kwaye uyazi kakuhle ukuba akalunganga kwaye iimvakalelo zentiyo zakhe azikho ngokwenene kwaye isizathu esibambekayo esivela kuwe.

Ekuphela kwento ephathwayo kule meko kukuxolelana.Umntu ongaxolelaniyo naye ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuphinda axolelaniswe nabanye abantu.Kungokwemvelo ukucaphukela abantu ngaphandle kwezizathu ezicacileyo.Olahlekelwa yinto yakhe akayiniki kuye. ongazithandiyo, umlindele njani ukuba abe nothando kwabanye?